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When Sex Isn’t About Sex Anymore: Uncovering the Real Desires That Drive Us

Sex changes. You change. What once felt like the ultimate goal (the orgasm, the rush, the conquering, the dripping-wet need) slowly morphs into something… else. As we get older,...

Book Report: All The Fucking Mistakes by Gigi Engle

Gigi Engle’s All The Fucking Mistakes is yet another good resource in the world of modern sexuality, relationships, and personal empowerment. It’s blunt, funny, and packed with real talk...

Adrian & Claire: Ethan’s Reclamation

The hallway was quiet now. Adrian’s rhythmic breathing drifted faintly from the guest room, a soft punctuation to the evening's earlier intensity. Claire lingered at the edge of the bedroom,...

Uniquely Rika: A Modern Blueprint for Female-Led Relationships

When it comes to female led relationships (FLR), Ms. Rika’s book Uniquely Rika feels like a friend sitting you down with a cup of tea and giving you all...

Bowling – Part 2: Claimed and Loved

After she came on my tongue—shuddering, gasping, her thighs quivering against my cheeks—she curled up beside me on the couch and kissed me deeply. The kind of kiss that...

All That He Is, and All That He Isn’t

We had just been lying there. Quiet. Not asleep, not talking, not really touching either. Just side by side in that familiar post-dinner, pre-sleep space. The air between us...

Bowling – Part 1: The Fruit of Her Night

I heard the soft slam of the car door, then the automatic hum of the garage shutting behind her. That sound alone—so familiar, so simple—sent a shiver through me....

Training Your Husband: How Male Chastity and Reward Schedules Build a Better Lover and Partner

When we talk about male chastity and orgasm control in modern marriages, people often assume it's all about control, power, and who holds the key (literally). But beneath all...

Reignite Your Marriage with Erotic Redirection

There comes a time in many long-term relationships when you look across the dinner table and realize the spark that once roared has simmered into something... quieter. Comfortable. Warm....

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 37

Her blouse hung open, exposing her bare breasts, the skin still flushed from her night of passion...

Cleanup Fantasy: Role Playing to Explore a Deeper Meaning

At first glance, the idea of a husband cleaning up after his wife’s lover—or even just simulating the experience—can seem humiliating or degrading. But here’s the twist: it’s not...

Confessions of a Size Queen: I Love Our Cuckold Marriage

I really enjoyed and identified with this post from ShyLittleSizeQueen, she gave me permission to repost it here with her bio, links and some photos. With no further ado,...

Female Led Relationships (FLR) and Sexual Breadcrumbing: A Wife’s Perspective

Marriages and long-term relationships can be a rollercoaster of highs and lows, especially when it comes to the most intimate part of your partnership: sex. When the honeymoon phase...

The Perfect Pair: Male Chastity and Self Love

If you’re already enjoying the power dynamics of a finger-led relationship, combining male chastity and self love takes this whole dynamic to a new level. These two elements are...

Himless and Happy: How My Finger-Led Relationship Left My Husband Pussy Free

For many couples, there is something deliciously empowering about knowing exactly what you want, how you want it, and choosing yourself over anyone else. It’s no secret that many...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 36

My name is John, though I go by rgjohn, and I’ve written a few erotic books and some content for Literotica. When Emma read my work, she suggested I...

10 Insightful Questions to Screen for Female-Led Relationship Compatibility—Without Scaring Him Off

Dating as a strong woman in today’s world can feel like walking a tightrope—especially when you're looking for something more aligned with a female-led relationship. Maybe you know exactly...

The Empowered Man: Redefining The Cuckold Relationship Dynamic

When you hear about the cuckold relationship dynamic, what springs to mind? For many, the idea of a cuckold marriage brings forward an image of a “weak” man, often...

Adrian & Claire: The Revelation

My thoughts are a tangled mess. I don’t even know where to begin—so I guess I’ll just start at the center of the storm. Last night, Claire and I had...

Short Term Mating Within Long Term Relationships – It Just Works

There’s something wildly liberating about standing in your power, isn’t there? Especially when you’ve crafted a relationship that truly supports your emotional, physical and sexual needs with a heart...

Exploring the 4 Love Archetypes and Their Application to Modern Relationships

When it comes to love and relationships, no two individuals are alike. The way we connect, interact, and form bonds with others is influenced by our personalities, backgrounds, and...

Adrian & Claire: Truth in Each Hand

The room was quiet now, humming with that thick post-sex stillness, like the air itself was catching its breath. Adrian lay on one side of me, chest still rising and...

The FLR Solution: Finding Each Other in the Chaos of Life

To the couples who barely talk about anything other than logistics. The ones who feel more like co-managers of a household than lovers. The ones who argue over nonsense...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 35

I was still reeling from Anna revealing that she was taking a lover when she had me get up from eating her.

Chastity as Cuckold Preparation: Building Connection, Excitement, and Power

In the world of modern relationships, chastity and cuckolding often emerge as complementary dynamics. They might seem like separate paths to enhancing intimacy, but many couples use chastity as...

What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM

For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....

Punishment & Correction

2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...

Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...

Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend

One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...

Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!

We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...

Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....

The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...

Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity

Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...

FLR101 – Read this first

I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider.  Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...

Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective

This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...