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Adrian & Claire: The Revelation
My thoughts are a tangled mess. I don’t even know where to begin—so I guess I’ll just start at the center of the storm. Last night, Claire and I had...
Short Term Mating Within Long Term Relationships – It Just Works
There’s something wildly liberating about standing in your power, isn’t there? Especially when you’ve crafted a relationship that truly supports your emotional, physical and sexual needs with a heart...
Exploring the 4 Love Archetypes and Their Application to Modern Relationships
When it comes to love and relationships, no two individuals are alike. The way we connect, interact, and form bonds with others is influenced by our personalities, backgrounds, and...
Adrian & Claire: Truth in Each Hand
The room was quiet now, humming with that thick post-sex stillness, like the air itself was catching its breath. Adrian lay on one side of me, chest still rising and...
The FLR Solution: Finding Each Other in the Chaos of Life
To the couples who barely talk about anything other than logistics. The ones who feel more like co-managers of a household than lovers. The ones who argue over nonsense...
My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 35
I was still reeling from Anna revealing that she was taking a lover when she had me get up from eating her.
Chastity as Cuckold Preparation: Building Connection, Excitement, and Power
In the world of modern relationships, chastity and cuckolding often emerge as complementary dynamics. They might seem like separate paths to enhancing intimacy, but many couples use chastity as...
Forgiveness
I didn’t need to yell. I didn’t need to argue. I was done doing that. The anger I felt toward Jessie had been simmering for weeks—maybe longer. Words had...
Submission Is Not Weakness: How Surrender Shows Strength in Female-Led Relationships
Some think that submission and weakness are synonyms but they couldn't be more different. Submission does not equal weakness, especially when we’re talking about submissive men in female-led relationships...
The After-Date Date: Bringing It All Back Together
Cuckolding is far more than just a wife seeking pleasure outside her marriage—it’s a deeply intimate, psychological, and emotional journey that involves both partners. A successful cuckold relationship thrives...
Off to the Races: Breaking Down Racial Stereotypes in Cuckold Dynamics
Let’s talk about a difficult but essential topic: the racial stereotypes in cuckold dynamics. The stereotype that often takes center stage is the image of the "big black bull"—a...
My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 34
Pegging soon became a natural part of our lifestyle. It happened at least once a week and, often it replaced traditional tease and denial.
Sexual Power Hierarchy (SPH): Psychological Impact of Dominance and Submission
Sexual dynamics are deeply intertwined with human psychology, and one of the most fascinating and primal aspects of male self-perception is penis size. While the fixation on size is...
Orgasm from Penetration: Exploring Techniques and Mindsets for Deeper Satisfaction
When it comes to sexual pleasure, size is just one element in a complex symphony of physical and emotional connection. Mutual orgasm is important due to hormonal pair bonding...
Understanding Relationship Orientations: Ambiamory, Polyamory, and Monogamy
Relationships are as diverse as the people who navigate them. Just as sexual orientations shape how we experience attraction, relational orientations define how we approach connection, love, and intimacy....
Pegging Makes Men Live Longer: Study Reveals Men Who Try Pegging Live 22% Longer
We all know that leading a healthy lifestyle, eating well, exercising, and maintaining strong social connections can help us live longer, but what if there’s another factor we’ve been...
Guided Arousal Conditioning in Female Led Relationships
Sexual psychology is fascinating, especially when it comes to arousal patterns and changing those to align with a couple’s chosen relationship dynamic. In female-led relationships (FLRs) and compersion based...
Keeping the Spark: Love is Supposed to Change—And That is a Good Thing
Let’s talk about the thing no one warns you about: love changes. Keeping the spark isn't easy and that heart-racing, can’t-keep-your-hands-off-each-other feeling? It has an expiration date. Neuroscientists say...
The DINK Lifestyle: Maintaining Connection in Dual Income No Kids Relationships
The DINK lifestyle (Dual Income, No Kids) is becoming an increasingly popular choice among modern couples. Whether it’s by design or circumstance, living child-free with two incomes offers financial...
Living Fearlessly in a World That Silences Strong Women
Fearlessness is not about never feeling afraid—it’s about refusing to let that fear dictate your choices. For strong women, society often acts as a silencer, pressuring us to conform,...
Book Report: The Temple by Cat Boulder – A Roadmap to Deepening Female-Led Relationships
Cat Boulder’s The Temple: Building a Roadmap Towards a Level 3/4 Female-Led Relationship is a thought-provoking exploration of more advanced female-led relationships (FLRs). The book provides a structured progression...
Why Do I Feel Sad After Sex? – Postcoital Dysphoria and Evolutionary Perspectives
It’s a phenomenon that many of us experience but few talk about—feeling sad after sex, even when it’s good sex. A sense of sadness, emptiness, or agitation may follow,...
My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 33
“Pegged,” she corrected and smacked my already sore ass. “And yes, stud. There are not too many straight men who are man enough to allow their lover to peg them and enjoy it.”
Cuckolding and Control: Why Some Wives Love Making Their Husband Watch
Cuckolding is sometimes misunderstood, especially by those new to the dynamic. Many assume it’s just about sex, about a woman fulfilling her desires with another man while her husband...
The Biology of Fatherhood and the Psychology of Cuckoldry
Why would fatherhood have anything to do with cuckoldry? How would the biology of being a dad lend itself in any way to cuckoldry? Bear with me as we...
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Having Fun With It
What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM
For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....
Discipline
Punishment & Correction
2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...
About Him
Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner
Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...
Chastity
Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend
One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...
About Her
Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!
We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...
Getting Started
Introduction: Taking the Reins
Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....
About Him
Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity
Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...
About Her
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...
FLR 101
FLR101 – Read this first
I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider. Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...
About Her
Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective
This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...
