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Karezza: A Mating Pedal and a Bonding Pedal
Our society has trained us to think that sex equals orgasm but what if a greater connection is to be found by redefining what sex actually is. The textbook...
Non-monogamy for fun and profit!
I am normally better about posting on a weekly basis but it has been three weeks, sorry y'all. I'm fine and I hope you are too. More of my...
5 things to love about erectile dysfunction (ED).
He expertly unsnaps your bra, you feel his warm breath on your neck. You feel his warm breath on the back of your ear. You get the chills, your...
Male Chastity: A magical cure for your broken marriage?
I received the following comment on one of the older blogs and I felt like it was worth publishing as a standalone blog because it provokes some interesting commentary...
The Strap-on Blowjob: All of the feels with none of the feels.
If you've been around this site more than a few minutes, you know that my fiance and I are huge pegging fans. Huge fans. I mean we peg more...
The Big Black Bull-shit. Interracial cuckold porn stereotypes are gross!
Images of black men as a much larger and more menacing cuckold threat to the poor innocent white women are pervasive in porn and imagery around the cuckold fetish....
Chastity Beauty Contest: We have a winner!
As NO-vember comes to a close, so does our 1st annual Male Chastity Beauty Contest and a winner has been selected. This was my first time doing a photo...
Sexualizing Insecurities: Is small penis humiliation (SPH) healthy?
I received an email earlier this week with a husband who wants her to make fun of his penis size. She is understandably confused and not comfortable with making...
What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM
For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude. Arguably the most famous blog...
Accept and embrace your role as his sexual supply!
In this sixteen part series over the next five weeks, we will explore how we can use our bodies and our sexuality with a partner with whom we've completely...
I love my husband but our sex life is boring. What can we do?
Sex is an incredible way to enhance the connection between two people but what happens when sex becomes boring or even mundane? Sex turns up the magic between two...
Let’s get real about blue balls!
We've all heard of blue balls. You know, that medical condition men complain about when they get aroused but don't ejaculate. I was accused of being a tease back...
You aren’t meeting my sexual needs!
In a monogamous relationship, society expects our needs to be completely met by our partner without exception. Stress, age and health concerns can throw our sexual desire from one...
Locked up for health & fitness with Miss Fit!
I'd like to introduce everyone to Miss Fit, who has a virtual fitness program that uses chastity to help achieve fitness results. As you may recall, Kev and I...
My husband is a pervert! Is it my fault?
It is no secret that about 80% of male chastity is initiated by the male and in this blog I provide context and encourage men to communicate about the...
Male Chastity Beauty Contest
If you are like me, you love the look of a neatly caged specimen and adore the lines of a nicely fitted cage. The confidence that it inspires for...
What does sex mean to men?
When men think about sex a lot, we assume it has something to do with testosterone. But men’s urgency about sex is not always about physical desire only. Sex can...
Three ways to tell if he can handle his cuckold fantasy
Your fella confessed that he has a fantasy of watching you with another man. That is a pretty big leap for even the most secure relationship. While many of...
10 Ways Men Can Feel Sexy
In our culture, the female form embodies sexy and men are not permitted the luxury of feeling sexy. Did you know that only 12.1 percent of men between the...
Locktober For Dummies: A Step By Step Guide
Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober...
Don’t want to have sex? Lock him up!
You knew what he was going to ask before he asked it. His body language said it all. He says something awkward like "hey baby, want to get jiggy...
I got a new job. Go me!
I am just taking a moment to brag here so forgive me for diving into the spotlight for a moment. I rushed home from a job interview to write...
Behind The Scenes: Always getting better
It is insane to think that this site has been around for nearly three years in one form or another. I started reading the now defunct FLR 101 blog...
Playful & Silly: The key to a lasting and loving relationship!
I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other's eyes. As I sat with my coffee...
How can I be a good husband to my wife?
The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to...