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Attraction & Courtship
Typically men find themselves most attracted to women their age or younger. Women, on the other hand usually find men older than them to be most attractive. The male...
The Dark Side of Male Chastity
This isn't going to be an article about the twisted underworld of chastity, this is about feelings. This is about ensuring that the feelings that you are hoping to...
The Sex Calendar
In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you...
In Defense of Submissive Men
So much of the material that you find on the internet about male submission and female dominance tends to minimize the value of the submissive man. If a man...
Punishment & Correction
2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent the relationship that we have...
Sweet Release
When you deem the timing appropriate, your man will need to be allowed a release. The timing of this is completely up to you but usually ranges between one...
Introduction – What is Chastity?
If you haven't read my article entitled taking the reigns and you are new to the concept of a female led relationship I would recommend that you start there.
Enforced...
The Sex Barter System
The concept of bartering involves one party giving something to another party in exchange for something of similar value. As one of the world's oldest professions, prostitution is the...
Lock Him Up For Date Night
I had a conversation with a friend of mine - she knows all about my love for keeping my fella under lock and key. So far she has shied...
The Sexually Frustrated Man
Aren't they all? Seriously though. This guy has an unrealistic expectation of sex in this relationship. He may have gotten into a relationship expecting that he would have daily...
Was it good for you?
We are obviously a sex-positive blog and I found this infographic to be very interesting. I haven't fact checked all of the points and it doesn't really have sources...
Male Chastity: Motivating his weight loss
Looking good for your partner is an important thing for every relationship. Sometimes you feel like your partner may need a bit of work to motivate him to get...
Pegging For Beginners
Pegging is new, pegging is exciting, pegging is scary. Read my previous blog about how pegging feels to a woman.
In his newly discovered and highly emotionally aware state, he...
Back In The Saddle
We tried the honor system. We tried it, didn't have any slip-ups and it worked but it wasn't as fun for either of us. Kevin got his weekly release...
Starting Out – Part 4
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it.
As we left...
Male Chastity: The Joys of Teasing Him
I've never been an overly extroverted person, in fact I really have to make an effort to be outgoing in social situations. Relationships are much of the same. When...
Male Chastity: The Three Day Itch
Kevin was good last week, Sunday came around and he got his weekly release. I decided not to lock him up this week. We don't do that every week,...
Relationships: How should you feel about porn?
How do I feel about porn?
I don't have a problem with porn. In fact I enjoy watching porn. I don't feel like it is demeaning to women. I don't...
What Kind of Man
What kind of man allows a woman to lock up his penis? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? This kind of humiliation? Emasculation?...
Starting Out – Part 3
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it.
So we left...
EvolvingYourMan.com
So you made it to the new site, thanks for coming along for the ride. What do you think? If you've linked or bookmarked the old one, please update...
Starting Out – Part 2
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it.
In the previous post,...
Its Not All Fun and Games
Its not all fun and games. But sometimes it is.
Some Fun Games To Play
This can be tough for the male but here are some games to make the teasing...
Delayed Ejaculation
This post is about understanding and treating ejaculatory disability/retarded ejaculation by conditioning the penis and male body to regain the ability to orgasm through sexual intercourse and oral stimulation....