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Behind The Scenes: Always getting better
It is insane to think that this site has been around for nearly three years in one form or another. I started reading the now defunct FLR 101 blog...
Playful & Silly: The key to a lasting and loving relationship!
I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other's eyes. As I sat with my coffee...
How can I be a good husband to my wife?
The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to...
The Locktober Challenge – Let’s fight testicular cancer together!
We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober 2021 festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month...
Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?
This won't be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and...
Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?
The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think...
Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!
There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men...
Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!
It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic...
What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?
In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our...
Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?
Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely....
Quit feeling guilty about sex!
For women it seems like sex and guilt go hand in hand. If we sleep with him too soon, we feel guilty. If we sleep with too many guys,...
How big of a problem is his masturbation?
Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what's the big deal? The...
Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these
Paraphilia - The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals.Objectophilia - Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects.Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia - Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects.Agalmatophilia - Sexual...
Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!
This isn't going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man's penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with...
A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation
Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I've written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog...
What the Heck are Reverse Pegging and Fauxing?
We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on...
Cleaning Up: Quit Being Squeamish About Creampies!
I wrote a blog a few years ago entitled to eat his own where I tasked Kev with tasting his own baby batter. I've tasted cum, his tastes as...
Why would I lock his penis in a cage?
My husband of twelve years just told me that he wants me to lock his penis in a metal cage. I didn't even know what to say! I searched...
Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?
It is true that men report a greater desire or interest in sexual fetishes than women do. Men also report engaging in these types of behaviors more frequently as...
Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]
In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I've thought about the body shaming and negative body image...
What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?
I've been trying to become more active on my twitter and I've come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some...
Male Chastity: Can Sexual Frustration Make You Die Sooner?
Well that is a spooky topic for a blog, right? I was trolling for sex articles on science's website because I am a pervy nerd and came across this...
Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective
We all know that negative reinforcement doesn't work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can...
Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon
In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can...
Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule
I've always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does....
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Having Fun With It
What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM
For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....
Discipline
Punishment & Correction
2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...
About Him
Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner
Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...
Chastity
Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend
One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...
About Her
Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!
We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...
Getting Started
Introduction: Taking the Reins
Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....
About Him
Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity
Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...
About Her
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...
FLR 101
FLR101 – Read this first
I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider. Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...
About Her
Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective
This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...
