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Casual Sex While In a Relationship
I've learned many things over the last year but one of the most interesting is the tie between an emotional and a physical relationship. Why is casual sex while...
Penis Size: I Like Them Small
To me, a large penis fosters a purely physical connection while a small penis supports a level of closeness and intimacy. A large penis gives me anxiety and a...
What do women want in a relationship?
The question that has been asked a million times in a million different ways. I am not going to attempt to answer it because the question shouldn't need to...
Ten Chastity Do’s and Don’ts
Life has been busy, what can I say. I've been away for a few weeks but I figured that I would start back with a quick blog about some...
My Husband Wants to Share Me
My husband said that he wants to share me, what do I do? This is a question I get pretty frequently and although it may seem alarming, it almost...
Male Chastity: Selecting the Correct Size For Your Cock Cage
The perfect cage would perfectly encapsulate the penis at its most flaccid state without creating discomfort as the penis swells to its erect state. The cage is not a...
House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement
The role of staying home to take care of the household is nothing new and the role itself is gender neutral but traditionally female. After posting my interview with...
Happy 2021: It Can’t Get Any Worse
I just want to wish all of you a very happy 2021. For those who are holders of keys, I wish you the willpower to keep him locked up...
Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Sexy Humiliation
Let me set the stage. You are fully clothed and sitting at the table with a glass of your favorite red wine, brightly colored markers and a blank white...
Introducing: Krystine Kellogg
I just came across Krystine Kellogg last night and did a binge listen through her entire backlog of podcasts. She is certainly someone that I think each of you...
Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?
What do you think of when you masturbate? Sometimes I fantasize about an elaborate romantic fantasy usually in black and white like an old movie. Sometimes I imagine an...
Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach
In countless previous blogs, I've discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I've received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn't that difficult. The problem...
The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource
The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go...
Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool
Within each of us there are two sides; the female side and the male side. A combination of different feminine and masculine parts to make you the person that...
You Are His Rock
The power of a strong, empowered, and committed woman knows no boundaries. While he is ultimately responsible for himself (she is not his fix or savior), she can be...
What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy
We've exhaustively covered how amazing male chastity is for women. Spoiler; he will be a more caring and attentive lover. For many couples, this is sufficient motivation. We were...
What is Slut Shaming and Why is She Such a Slut?
Wikipedia says that slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing women based upon the sexual expectations of others. I've gotten my share of raised eyebrows due to our living situation....
How Coronavirus Changed Our Marriage For The Better
This is a story about TanjaNest, a reader that recently joined the site. Like so many of us, Covid-19 forced some changes on her family. A huge thanks to...
An affair made me a better wife and mother
This blog entry isn't about me, it is paraphrased from a few different blogs that I've read. The content reflects things that I've heard from personal friends and from...
Oral Pleasures
Like most of you, I enjoy oral sex. I mean, I really enjoy oral sex. Not just receiving but also giving. There are so many nuances to oral sex...
Then There Were Three
I've hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let...
Vote
I know this site has quite the international following, especially France. This post is specifically for readers in the USA. Vote. Please get out and vote. I don't want...
Sexual Contingent Self-Worth
People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If...
Moving In
For those of you that haven't been following the blog religiously for the last few months, I'll catch you up to speed on the recent developments in my life....
An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?
Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees,...
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Having Fun With It
What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM
For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....
Discipline
Punishment & Correction
2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...
About Him
Lazy Husband? 5 Steps to Motivate Him to be a Better Partner
Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...
Chastity
Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend
One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...
About Her
Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!
We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...
Getting Started
Introduction: Taking the Reins
Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....
About Him
Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity
Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...
About Her
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...
FLR 101
FLR101 – Read this first
I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider. Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...
About Him
Bending Over to Stand Tall: 10 Reasons Why Pegging is a Relationship Game-Changer
Alright, let’s talk about pegging. Yes, that pegging—the one where your partner straps in, and you’re the one bending over. Before you clutch your...
