Wikipedia says that slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing women based upon the sexual expectations of others. I've gotten my share of raised eyebrows due to our living situation....

This is a story about TanjaNest, a reader that recently joined the site. Like so many of us, Covid-19 forced some changes on her family. A huge thanks to...

This blog entry isn't about me, it is paraphrased from a few different blogs that I've read. The content reflects things that I've heard from personal friends and from...

Like most of you, I enjoy oral sex. I mean, I really enjoy oral sex. Not just receiving but also giving. There are so many nuances to oral sex...

I've hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let...

I know this site has quite the international following, especially France. This post is specifically for readers in the USA. Vote. Please get out and vote. I don't want...

People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If...

For those of you that haven't been following the blog religiously for the last few months, I'll catch you up to speed on the recent developments in my life....

Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees,...

Due to the popularity of my post about pegging becoming more mainstream in movies and television, I decided to do a post about pegging comedy. Pegging in itself can...

He is gay so he likes penis. She is gay so she likes vagina. They are bi so they like both. Then you throw a throw in trans and...

The medical term for painful intercourse is dyspareunia (dis-puh-ROO-nee-uh), defined as persistent or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after intercourse. There can be many causes...

As anal sex becomes more universally accepted and mainstream, pegging does too. Let's take a look at the appearances that pegging has made on the big screen. I think...

One of our readers sent me information about a sex coach named Caitlin V. She is animated, fun, sex positive, easy to understand and her videos are excellent! I've...

We discuss pegging quite frequently on this site and it seems that most of you are strong advocates of the practice in your relationship. Some couples tried pegging a...

Remember ladies, it is almost Locktober. Time to lock your boy up! -Me How does something as simple as a key become sexy? We use various keys to get into our...

So he put his willy in a little metal thing for a few days. Big deal. At the beginning of our journey, I didn't really understand how big of...

Here's an email exchange with a reader over the last couple days: Reader- We have a somewhat female led relationship and my husband wears a chastity cage regularly, we do...

In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun,...

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage...

This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their...

Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled "Real Men Don't Have Penises" we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders...

Vikter is a reader and frequent forum contributor that has incorporated some of the principles that I promote in the blog such as male orgasm control and pegging. Additionally,...

A blog about sexuality and I don't think I've ever done a blog about penis size. I should be ashamed of myself. Oh well, time to make amends. Desirability I like...

When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his...