In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun,...

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage...

This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their...

Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled "Real Men Don't Have Penises" we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders...

Vikter is a reader and frequent forum contributor that has incorporated some of the principles that I promote in the blog such as male orgasm control and pegging. Additionally,...

A blog about sexuality and I don't think I've ever done a blog about penis size. I should be ashamed of myself. Oh well, time to make amends. Desirability I like...

When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his...

This is an ongoing story about my life with Kevin, our neighbor Andrew and the new and interesting dynamic that is coming from our new relationship. You can read...

The physical side of pegging is pretty simple, I spelled it out in this blog about pegging for beginners. Girl puts on strap-on harness, boy bends over, girl puts...

This may seem like very conventional logic but what happens when they do? If she has a penis, is she really a he? Is he really a she? I...

I received an email from a reader who asked about their husband's "masturbation" problem. An excerpt of her email is below: He masturbates daily while I am at work, I...

For those of you keeping track, this is part four of a recent series about my life. I've tried to write it in a way that makes sense even...

What the heck are copulins? I came across them when doing some research about pheromones. For some reason, the word copulins makes the think of little green men or...

On this website I spend quite a bit of time discussing differences between women and men. Along the way, some have accused me of being a female supremacist. Do...

This article was written by a guest contributor named MagicalMolly after seeing my ping pong blog. She said that she had a story to tell me that might help...

I've just been thinking and researching some things about human sexuality and felt the need to put some thoughts down. Both men and women are wired to be monogamous...

I'd first like to thank Ruined-Julie for contributing this post. Full disclosure, Kevin and I tried the ruined orgasm and it didn't work well for us. Julie's writing certainly...

In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when...

Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the...

My last couple blogs have turned into erotic novels and while that isn't the typical content of the site, I really enjoyed reminiscing about the experience and writing it....

In my previous blog, I talked about meeting Andrew and the game of table tennis that led to an exciting friendship. If you haven't read that blog, I highly...

I've hesitated to post this too quickly but knew I would post it sooner or later since typing my thoughts tends to give me a sort of mental clarity....

He probably does want to be locked! Once he grows accustomed to the feel of the cage and managing his releases, many men grow to feel more comfortable when...

Let's talk about motivation. A typical man's sexual energy is very closely linked to his desire to please you. That may seem odd but men in fact are hard...

I admit it. Penises fascinate me. I wouldn't say that most penises are incredibly attractive (sorry guys) but they are shaped to be very practical. Their sizes and shapes...