For those of you who have been around a while, you know that I'm never one to be afraid of feeding the trolls. Something about the the site or...

I'll go against everything that I have ever been told and begin with the conclusion. The plastic or resin cage is lighter weight and typically will not set off...

Update 10/8/2020 - The BBC and Tech Crunch have published some issues that indicate safety and security concerns with this device. Buyers beware. Admittedly I am a huge nerd. Kevin...

Wait. What? Spikes? You read that correctly. This is a post about cages with pokey bits on the inside. Why on earth would you want to add uncomfortable sharpness?...

I am back! To be honest I never really went anywhere. I've just had life creep up on me and my little hobby website was something that I needed to...

DominusServae contacted me and we've been corresponding about his thoughts on the blog with relation to his own experience as a dominant male. It seems that much of what...

Kevin is running some errands this morning and I am just sitting here drinking my coffee and thinking. I just wanted to take a moment to write a blog...

It is like a combination of Mother's Day, Valentine's Day and Christmas all in one. Don't miss out on this wonderful opportunity to try something new to rekindle things...

I'm writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the...

Masturbation is a huge part of our sexuality. We all masturbate and taking matters into our own hands is nothing to be ashamed of. The problems come when masturbation...

I've been a bit silent over the last month as we've had family in and out of town and everything that comes with the holidays. What better way to...

Pegging is a gentle act of submission for us. I enjoy it that way, I want him to feel the sensual side of sex. I want him to feel...

The following is an insightful piece written by Tumbelina, a chastity advocate. I wanted to share it with you all since the article seemed to resonate with my feelings...

We've never experienced one of these but I can't wait until I am able to help Kevin experience one. Or two. Or three. In my quest to help guide...

Relationships are all about connection. Sometimes we have busy lives, mismatched libidos or even conflict that steps between us. Our emotions play an enormous part of our ability to...

Did you know that October 13th is National Pegging Day? Take this wonderful holiday to learn about pegging and everything that it can bring to your relationship. Here are...

If you've spent any time reading my blog, you've undoubtedly seen that Kevin and I truly enjoy pegging. If you haven't tried pegging, swing over to the pegging for...

There are a wide variety of medical conditions relating to male ejaculation; Premature Ejaculation, Inhibited Ejaculation and Retarded Ejaculation are just a few. Interestingly enough, each of them lists...

Oscar Wilde once said "Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about Power." While that quote is vastly overused, it is completely accurate. We use...

My mother told me that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. To some extent, she was right. Men love affection, attention, appreciation and respect. Cooking...

Locktober is the challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an...

Sometimes a woman just needs to descend to her primal instincts rather than traditionally/societal feminine roles. Sometimes she needs to feel what it is like to fully dominate her...

Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we...

Can you create a fetish in your guy thorough the use of operant conditioning? Operant conditioning is a type of learning where behavior is controlled by consequences. You can...

Kevin and I love experimenting. Nothing new for us. We like to learn as much as we can about this whole sexuality level and then tweak it to our...