I’m writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the whole row to myself. I don’t think I’d be able to concentrate if I was constantly worried about the wandering eyes of the person beside me.… Continue reading Sexualizing Insecurities
Masturbation is a huge part of our sexuality. We all masturbate and taking matters into our own hands is nothing to be ashamed of. The problems come when masturbation causes conflict in the relationship. Problems occur when the masturbation of one partner gets in the way of the sexual or emotional needs of the other.… Continue reading Talk to him about masturbation
We’ve never experienced one of these but I can’t wait until I am able to help Kevin experience one. Or two. Or three. In my quest to help guide him on his journey to a prostate orgasm, I’ve compiled information to share with all of you lovely folks. What is a prostate orgasm? A prostate… Continue reading Prostate Orgasm
Relationships are all about connection. Sometimes we have busy lives, mismatched libidos or even conflict that steps between us. Our emotions play an enormous part of our ability to connect with our partners. Few of our partners are out to cause us emotional or physical harm. If you are convinced that your partner isn’t looking… Continue reading A Deep Connection
If you’ve spent any time reading my blog, you’ve undoubtedly seen that Kevin and I truly enjoy pegging. If you haven’t tried pegging, swing over to the pegging for beginners blog that I wrote earlier this year. Over the last two years, this form of sex has become as frequent as “old school” piv sex… Continue reading Pegging Positions
There are quite a few medical conditions relating to male ejaculation; Premature Ejacultation, Inhibited Ejaculation and Retarded Ejaculation are just a few. Interestingly enough, every single one of them lists the number one cause of the condition as mental. Many of them suggest psychologists to get to underlying root causes or past emotional trauma. Several… Continue reading Ejaculation Training
My mother told me that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. To some extent, she was right. Men love affection, attention, appreciation and respect. Cooking for your man shows all of these things – serving by providing. How would you feel if you spent hours slaving over the stove and your… Continue reading Is Masturbation Cheating?
Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we don’t endure conflict or challenges in our relationships, they will grow stale and boring. We will slowly grow apart from our partner and we will seek… Continue reading Push His Boundaries
Can you build a fetish in your guy thorough operant conditioning? Operant conditioning is a type of learning where behavior is controlled by consequences. You can read more about operant conditioning here. The question with this blog isn’t about operant conditioning but rather if you can create a sexual fetish by conditioning him to sexualize… Continue reading Can You Create a Fetish?
Kevin and I love experimenting. Nothing new for us. We like to learn as much as we can about this whole sexuality level and then tweak it to our tastes. Not being a man, I find male sexuality to be extremely interesting and fascinating. A piece of your body that grows when you are sexually… Continue reading How Long Should He Take?