Alpha male

Have you always been a dominant woman?   Have you always desired submissive, effeminate men?    Do you think dominance in women comes from nature, nurture, or both?    Is female dominance biological (DNA, hormonal/libido) or does female dominance evolve from graphic visual stimuli, past sexual abuse, Daddy issues, or simply the presence of a dominant motherly figure during adolescence?    I think most boys learn dominant sexual behavior from porn, enforced by gender norms, and follow that path through life.     

If your submissive man had a beautiful big cock and you required he fuck you like an animal anytime you wanted without his release, would that be the best of both worlds and an ideal situation or would you rather have sexual affairs on the side while keeping your submissive man denied?

Lot's of questions, I know, but I am extremely curious.

Is Penelopa your real name?   The reason I ask is that Penelope from the Odyssey by Homer was the wife of Odysseus, who despite having many suitors try to win her affections,  was known for her resolute fidelity to Odysseus, who was most often away on quests.    Because of this the name Penelope has come to mean marital fidelity.    Just curious if that was an intentional literary allusion on your part or if a name could have a paradoxical impact on personality traits.

@bill

I've been dominant since I was a kid. My parents and society have taught me to act submissively. I've been acting like that for years. Around my 35th year, I became totally dominant again. I don't know what a woman's true nature. 
Most women are submissive, though there are more and more dominant ones. I was with a dominant man. The sex was good, but we were arguing every minute. Submissive men, being a constant partner and endowed dominant men occasionally for sex are the right combination for me.
Sex is the primary dominant male act. As such, it is not good for a submissive man. Sex only impairs submissiveness, so in my opinion, wife should have sex with another man.

@bill

Penelope is not my real name. I think as a paradox it suits my nature.

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@bill

Penelope is not my real name. I think as a paradox it suits my nature.

Yes it does!     Thank you for your responses.

Bill,

I love the Homeric reference.  Don’t you imagine though, that after 10 years away and affairs with Circe and Calypso that Penelope would have put Odysseus in chastity if she could have?

JD