Each time I try, thinking "I can self-impose this for a week to prove I can do it, then maybe try a service [like the MissFit article for fitness improvement]", but I make it 1, 2 days. Maybe 3 as a record, before I just unlock because it'd feel too good to indulge (I have no KH - single).
it's unbelievably difficult.
I can only talk for my self, sorry for saying this.....i have the best motivation....my love and devoition to my wife and our relationship.
But i do think you can do it your self, find something thats more imortant than unlocking.
A goal, a promise to a person you trust and respect...maybe try to see who can stay locked the longest.(A race)
God luck, you CAN do it.
For me personally, I'm not sure I understand what is actually hoped to be gained by self-locking in a long-term sense. Sure, it can be fun to have a cage on your cock for masturbatory role play and the like, but what is the end game goal? Not bashing, just not understanding.
For me personally, I'm not sure I understand what is actually hoped to be gained
Good question - there was that fitness post (MissFit) where she uses it as a reward system for health & fitness goals. It sounds motivating, but didn't want to actually turn over key for a week at a time based on fitness plan, unless proving 24/7 for a week actually works in 1 device first
So do all you guys have washboard abs, if you live w a keyholder?
it's so easy for her to say "only guys that meet workout goals get unlocked"