I’m happy to have found this site and I’m enjoying reading through all the blogs and forum topics.
My wife and I are new to chastity and orgasm control/denial. We started talking about it about a year ago but really only started actively engaging in it over the past few months.
Shifting my focus from pursuing sex as something to satisfy my needs to using my energy to satisfying her emotional and physical needs has done wonders for our relationship.
Hoping to learn more from the wonderful people here!
Welcome aboard locked4_wife. You're going to love it here.
Shifting my focus from pursuing sex as something to satisfy my needs to using my energy to satisfying her emotional and physical needs has done wonders for our relationship.
THIS! This is wisdom beyond what most people in the world will ever get an opportunity to understand, let alone realize. Congratulations!

@subhubphx thank you! It’s nice finding a place to discuss these topics without focusing on the hardcore erotic fantasy side of things. Seems healthier, light hearted, and makes this more about a pursuit to have fun with your spouse. Happy to learn from everyone’s experiences!
Welcome to the forum.