I am happily married to my older menopausal wife who is becoming increasingly asexual. I am devoted to her and sexually submissive to her too, doing most of the housework, shopping and cleaning too. We are intimate about once a month, and although I have a high sex drive I am happy with this because her touch is worth the wait. I have suggested that I wear a chastity device and she hold the key, as I thought our relationship would benefit from it as she can get upset sometimes when I am aroused, but she thought I was being ridiculous. I wish she would understand how much I think it would benefit me, I really need my lust contained so that I can be a better husband. I think we would benefit from chastity so much.