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Hello! I am a married man who has been intrigued by the idea of sharing my wife. We have had group sex before, but there is something about the idea of her orgasming on another man's cock that really makes me hot. I am looking to talk with like minded people and learning if our relationship has the strength to handle this really exciting lifestyle.
Posted : 04/11/2024 3:52 am
I'm curious how she feels about this. Is she interested in doing this with you or is this something you want her to do for you?
Posted : 04/11/2024 11:31 am
1subdawg reacted
There’s a pretty good chance that you both might end up regretting this later on. I totally get it—exploring new fantasies can be so exciting! But bringing someone else into such an intimate space can stir up feelings you might not expect. Sometimes, it’s best if fantasies just remain fantasies.
Keeping the lines of communication wide open is super important. Make sure you both feel comfy and truly understand what this could mean for your relationship. Take your time with it, and don’t hesitate to talk about any concerns or feelings that pop up. At the end of the day, the bond you share is the most precious thing. Just remember, if you go ahead with this, the choices you make have a pretty good chance of hurting one or both of you more than anything else. Sending you both lots of good vibes as you figure this out!
Have you thought about starting with dating a woman first? I feel like that could really help you both ease into things. It tends to feel less complicated and might take some pressure off. Plus, you can explore your boundaries together in a more relaxed way.
Posted : 05/11/2024 1:42 am
Williams H and 1subdawg reacted
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"There’s a pretty good chance that you both might end up regretting this later on. I totally get it—exploring new fantasies can be so exciting! But bringing someone else into such an intimate space can stir up feelings you might not expect. Sometimes, it’s best if fantasies just remain fantasies."
Truth! When we experiment with naughty things in fantasy, there is always a soft place to land when the inevitable angst and regret set in. Once it actually happens (her cumming on someone else's dick), it's something that can't be undone or taken back. If the inevitable jealousy turns to inevitable regret, it's likely game over. Be absolutely fucking sure that this is what you BOTH want.
Posted : 05/11/2024 9:51 am
Evolving Emma reacted
Or perhaps worse, it could end with only one of you regretting it.
Posted : 05/11/2024 9:25 pm
1subdawg reacted
@nika @money_badger That's actually a solid suggestion. Starting by dating a woman can be a great way to ease into the lifestyle without jumping straight into something that could feel more intense or threatening. It gives you both a chance to dip your toes in, figure out what works for you, and build that trust as a couple.
Posted : 06/11/2024 3:22 am
@evolvingyourman, yes, even worse. Regret is soul-crushing whether it is one of them or both.
Posted : 06/11/2024 8:26 am
