My husband and I are a normal middle aged couple, the kids have left the roost. He has retired and I am a teacher but plan to retire in just a few short years. We were feeling a bit bored sexually and working on expanding to something new. After menopause I've been very hot and cold in the sex drive department and thought that this might be a fun game to spice things up. He has a lack of energy and that is partly to do with him being retired and having no real obligations. We aren't interested in some of the kinkier things that you describe on the site however we've had some really interesting success in the last few months. My husband has never been a great communicator but this has sparked a new version of him that is more capable of expressing himself and his emotions. Frankly I wish I would have found this information earlier but we were always so busy with our careers and the kids. Never really made time for ourselves and now we are trying to rediscover each other and our old bodies.
Thank you for the site as I find much of the information very interesting.