Stealth reader jumps in
Upon reading Emma's latest (pretty inspired) post, I think she indeed had a good idea to tell folks like me come and say hello. I appreciate this touch of attention and hope it can trigger others to do likewise.
Long story short, I've been reading the blogs and forums since about 2019, I thought of subscribing much earlier than I actually did (a couple of weeks ago). Hence the "stealth reader" I qualify myself as.
I have no prior experience with relationships, not more than chastity actually (I have a device I seldom use due to not living alone), and I don't really know where to start. That's one of the main reasons I haven't posted anything here earlier. Most of you are actually looking to enhance the dynamics of a relationship - your stories are absolutely amazing by their diversity and number - and I'm thinking "Aren't you going to be that lone fish in the sea?". I don't have a hundredth of what you say to enrich the forums with...
Thank you all for sharing your stories and thoughts, it's a delight to read. Now that the first step is done, I'll try and speak more often.
Hi @Corey! Welcome to the site.
While it may seem like you don't have much to say, the perspective you have is probably shared by more than a few people who've never taken the time to register. I am curious about the chastity excuse of not using it due to not living alone. Unless you walk around nude with your roommate, chastity can be a very private thing and need not be shared. I can't speak to any benefits of chastity out of the context of a relationship however. Maybe someone else can lend some perspective? I know there is a nofap community on reddit that may speak to this.