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kevin1989daniels
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I have a question plz and would appreciate if anyone can give me their insight on it. My wife and I been trying pegging for about 5 to 6 years per her request. I was hesitant about it because of many misconceptions I had about it. But after she corrected my misconceptions on it, I consented to it and to my surprise I actually had a great time. One thing I deeply liked is how powerful and in control it made her, she looked really powerful doing it, especially in heels and all that. I always thought myself to be dominant but I liked being dominated that way. So, I was raised by my mom alone with my 2 sisters. My asshole abusive dad gratefully left us when we were kids. So, growing up, i grew up admiring strong women and championing women and women empowerment. 

 

 

So, my question is, do you all think that my childhood and life experiences might have played a role in me liking being dominated while and by being pegged? Like, i get it that some people might debate that pegging isnt a femdom act in and of itself but it sure as hell creates a HUGE potential and chance and makes it a lot easier for women to dominate in such a case. And thanks beforehand for your help and perspective guys and gals.

 
Posted : 17/01/2025 5:51 am
LeeMarcum
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I think a lot more men enjoy pegging, Then we think because there is a taboo and condemnation around the act. Guy will not talk about how they enjoy it and maybe even crave it. But in stead they deny liking it.

 

I think it is awesome that you grew up with strong women.

But I think as a male I love watching females grow into there strength and there power dynamics. But you have seen powerful women in there element it may be easier for you to allow their power to flow freely, it may even feel natural. However someone that has not experienced this as often may struggle allowing the female power dynamics take over and enjoy The confidence, enjoy and happiness. All women should have the opportunity to experience without feeling guilty.

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Cherish that up bring and embrace the fact you may have the best perspective. That other will have to work towards to understand. And help other get there. 


 

 
Posted : 17/01/2025 6:52 am
kevin1989daniels
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@leemarcum-2 Thank you so much. I do indeed cherish it. I think as men we would be a lot happier and much better if we are normalized with women being in more positions of power and not intimidated by power and strong women. Make no mistake, I am not in or into the whole female led relationships. i think equality should be in a marriage. But you cant have equality without a woman thats equally strong as you. And you cant be happy in an equal marriage if you cant normalize women being empowered.

 
Posted : 18/01/2025 1:52 pm
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