In answer to the question “what do we call this?”, I would say that, yes, it is a form of “poly friending”. You don’t have actual sex with the other ...

Penisheld, I had to laugh at myself when I misread your question as “How would you see society/the world improving if large cocks were generally caged...

I agree with you, Recover. It is fun to imagine a different world, one in which our kinks come to be seen as “normal” behaviour. But apart from the l...

@janell You remind me of my wife back when I told her I had cuckold fantasies. Like you, she was really turned on by the idea of being free to experi...

Lonnie, I don’t see any reason you should worry about your opinion being unpopular. Most people still believe that marriage should be strictly monoga...

@steph I think the answer to your question is yes, males also have a natural desire for newness. That’s why some men cheat on their wives. Men who a...

That’s a great list, lighthearted and serious at the same time. I can say that the most intense orgasms I have ever had were the result of SPH play w...

I think that enforced chastity is a really sexy erotic game, similar to other forms of erotic power exchange. I think the idea you express that a wom...

I think you are spot on. If the existence of a WLM/FLR is merely for the dispensing of fetish activities for the male, then yes, it is tedious and I ...

You could be right. That being said, I would be surprised if the men who follow this blog, either as participants or lurkers, aren’t motivated by kink...

Thanks for your response. That makes sense to me. I think a challenge in a FLR is that most of us submissive men tend to have the kinds of sexual ki...

Thank you for posting that, Matara. Maybe I flatter myself, but I like to think most of it applies to me. A lot of it definitely does. The one tha...

Thanks for that explanation, Brian. It makes sense to me now. I have some inkling of the “head space” you are talking about from D/s experiences I h...

You are right that each couple has unique dynamics and that there is no one way to do FLR or orgasm denial. I am still trying to get my head around t...

@subhubphx I agree that humiliation can do real emotional damage, so one has to be careful with it. But the right kind of humiliation in the right sit...