My mid-month update: It's been fun so far. For practical reasons (and partly because I haven't found a cage that's suitable for long-term wear) I'm ...

I’m participating with my impish girlfriend this year. If I make it, it will double my personal record for chastity. We haven’t employed a cage yet (h...

The psychology of fetishes and kink are so diverse it's hard to generalize about any of them. And while I agree with the comments and analysis of fema...

I hear a lot of song lyrics that sound like they could be related to these kink/lifestyles (probably just because that's where my brain usually is). I...

Good points to consider. It's not a direct work relationship thing, more of an annual, industry-adjacent conference that they both attended and met at...

That post by @AllAboutHer is one of the most thoughtful and insightful things I've read on this topic. Kudos.

Thank you for the feedback. It's been difficult for me to stow my jealousy and insecurities. I'm trying, but my brain and my heart and my gut don't se...

A couple I used to know decided to make up a brand new last name and they both took that. They designed something unique and meaningful to them. Every...

I've recently found this pretty hot. My wife isn't a fan of penetrative toys - she doesn't like the feeling - but I keep hoping that might be somethin...

@subhubphx and @kimmy2006 Any favorites you've found you'd like to share? Always looking for good recommendations. There's a lot of "not quite my thin...

Oh, this is my kind of thread... Marriage is a lot like being a meteorologist. No matter what you say, you're still wrong. The key to keeping a wo...

@jsmith12 Not my thing but wild indeed. And there's a gem of a story at the end of that blog with a hilarious moment when a 65-year-old guy visits his...

@emma You have such a diplomatic and measured approach to responding to criticisms (and trolls, when they appear). It's nice to see that in such an ot...