Hey Belle! My only real advice is to not worry about your hang-ups. Seriously. Your relationship is just for the two of you, and it doesn't matter h...

@jnuts my wife is pure vanilla as well. At some point, though, she started to see some real benefits, and at that point, this thing took on a life of ...

I don't know ... my wife finds it really easy. ? Good luck!

That is exactly how our marriage works. I see nothing wrong with this. I want to obey my wife, completely, perfectly. I want her to decide whatever ...

Not at all a bad habit. Until a few (3?) years ago, that was my habit. Every night (with few exceptions). Things changed. I was not a fan, at first....

The effects are strong, and well worth it, and it's painfully obvious (emphasis on painful, sometimes). The positive impact on the relationship is not...

There was a period of time when I felt that way. That was the darkest period of my life. The choices that I made during that period were self-destru...

We're on the "easing into things" route. The main thing is that I try to make sure that there's no expectation on her at all. No pressure to lock. N...

Not everyone needs to follow the same recipe. I don't have orgasms, whether or not I'm caged, without my wife being directly involved. I get it: T...

A book is a huge amount of work. Before you commit to doing it, see if you can sign up some of the people here to agree (in advance, and not "I migh...

<hugs> thanks for sharing

Congratulations 🙂 That sounds very sweet.

Ca c'est bon!

Try this: While you have him like putty in your hands ("sub space"), perhaps when you're lying next to him at night and caressing him (or whatever you...

Being a true friend does not come naturally to many people. That doesn't mean that they are bad people, but it does mean that you'll get responses l...