What kind of man allows a woman to lock up his penis? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? This kind of humiliation? Emasculation? A “real man” would never let someone do this to him.
First off, many men feel enslaved to their penis and to their sex drive. Think of the recent celebrities that have been in the spotlight. Cosby, Louis C.K. etc etc. These men are very intelligent and made some very poor decisions based upon choices that were made merely to fulfill sexual desire.
In my opinion, a real man isn’t defined by his penis he is defined by his actions. A real man is a good husband, a good father, a good person. Allowing someone to help guide him to positive behavior is simply accepting help in an area that by your very nature is weak. If he can allow his wife to guide him in this one area, the entire relationship will glow. He needs her strength after their lovemaking sessions to ensure that he stays true to his agreement with her. Although different and strange to some, there should be nothing humiliating and emasculating here. The man is putting his wife first and allowing her a level of sexual enjoyment that other women would beg for. There are some fetishes that involve humiliation but that depends on the couple and we can save that for a different conversation.
I admittedly only know a handful of guys who are caged or have been caged in the past because it isn’t something that couples openly discuss with others. I personally wish the taboo for this practice would go away because I feel like it is a legitimate way for women to help guide their man on a successful path. Part of the reason that I wanted to create this blog is to try and do my little part to help take things a bit more mainstream.
Traits of a man who benefits be being guided in this manner:
- High energy and sex drive
- Large disparity between the sex drive of he and his significant other
- High self confidence
- Low self confidence
- Works in an environment where he is in charge, admired or has sway within his organization
- Works in an environment with lots of interaction with females
- Has a penis
Here are a couple profiles of specific guys that I know who have really thrived with a bit of shall we say “cage guidance” or “cage assistive therapy”.
The boss is in charge of a large group of employees at work, is admired by many, feared by some and has no trouble asserting himself at work. He has power and influence at work and may come home thinking that he can be the boss at home. A cage will help him remain balanced at home and help keep the dynamics of home and work separate. Frequent work travel may be a challenge here if it involves flying.
The middle management guy is a great candidate for this sort of assistive therapy. This will give him the drive at work and allow him to focus his efforts on moving up the corporate ladder. Taking the focus away from his penis will help to ensure that he doesn’t get distracted by flirting with co-workers or getting himself into situations that might jeopardize his career.
A guy who is on stage with respected skills that women find interesting is quite dangerous. If female attention is readily available then temptation can arise especially if he travels frequently.
The submissive man is a guy who is more in touch with his feelings and more self aware of the way his masturbation habits are impacting his actions and desires in your relationship.
Sometimes the guy needs a bit of a boost to help motivate him. This little trick is the best thing to help the guy who sits on the couch and plays video games all day. Give this a go if you would like him to lose a few pounds, go to the gym or even get a job. You can be as straightforward as “If you lose 5lbs, you get a release”.
Here are a couple profiles of women who are great candidates for locking things down in their household.
Stay at Home Mom
The stay at home mom can feel bored at home, can feel powerless with her husband at work.
The Professional Woman
The professional woman is used to being in charge at work, she is capable of asserting herself and demands respect. She is used to getting her way and this helps her ensure that her household runs the way she expects it to.
The OCD Woman
She wants things to be her way, she wants all of her things to be in the right order. She wants to know when things are happening and she needs it all to be on her terms.
Note that homosexual couples also find great benefit so my intention is not to exclude anyone. The focus of my blog is on heterosexual couples because that is what I know but I’d love to get some perspective on the gay perspective.
Which of these profiles do you see in yourself? How about your significant other? Write a quick introduction about yourself and tell us.