5 thoughts on “Was it good for you?

  1. Frequent sex is healthy for men and women,and has many benefits for physical,psychical and emotional health. Woman blossoms with man who retains.They are real gentlemen who know how to treat and take care of women. Instead of unretained men who don’t care, respect female needs,desires and take them for granted. Frequent male ejaculation destroys intimacy,passion and love in relationship. Women are not dolls,they are your partners, who have rights, expectations,them merit to be loved, cherished and respected in relationship.

    1. Yep! Sex is fantastic and great for bringing a couple together. We have sex a few times a week and love the feelings and intimacy that comes along with it. We both really enjoy ourselves although it did take a while for him to separate orgasm from sex. Women have been going without orgasm for years so it really isn’t anything outlandish.

  2. Hi Emma
    First I wanted to say I love your blog keep up the great work. I do have a question concerning the chart above. It states and I’ve heard this many times before that males not having many orgasms can lead to prostate problems. Whereas the male that has more orgasms like mentioned in the diagram above may help prevent prostate problems. Just wondering what your thoughts are any of the readers thoughts may be on. Thank you


    1. Great question. I’ve heard a few different statistics about it and it has made me curious as well. So in regular Emma form I go out and research it until I am blue in the face. The short story is- there are lots of risk factors but lack of ejaculation is not one of them.

      I’ve seen some speculative links between prostate cancer and orgasm with surveys that try and link ejaculation frequency with prostate cancer. One of them even states that a man should ejaculate 4.7 times per week to have a 30% reduction in prostate cancer. Those surveys don’t take other factors into account such as age, health, weight etc.

      They do say that ejaculating frequently clear carcinogenic substances from the testicles. Assuming that is the case, frequent teasing should be more than sufficient to keep things moving. A man who is denied and teased is almost always leaking, which proves that that sperm and hormone production is still in high gear.

      Additionally, Semen is a fluid that is made from secretions from the seminal vesicles and secretions from the prostate. If the prostate is full, the man will stimulate his prostate when he defecates. This will release seminal fluid. There are other, more exciting ways of milking the prostate as well.

      The short story is – the testicles will keep things flowing with enough stimulation and teasing. The prostate will milk itself during bowel movements as needed by the body. There may be some value in keeping high hormone levels and high levels of arousal, which I highly recommend as well. Don’t lock him and leave him, there are many reasons why that would be a recipe for disaster. Make sure that you check reputable medical information and if you find any studies that you think are reputable, feel free to post them here. Always defer to your doctor’s recommendation yada yada.

      Also- this was such a good question that I am adding it to the FAQ.

  3. Good info; thanks for the research. I can only speak for myself, but after several days locked and teased (inside the cage or with limited uncaged time), I sometimes leak seminal fluid following urination. I end up feeling as if I’ve not completely emptied the bladder…and then leakage occurs. Can’t say I’ve experienced it during BM that I recall. Hopefully, this is not TMI…LOL.

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