Kevin is running some errands this morning and I am just sitting here drinking my coffee and thinking. I just wanted to take a moment to write a blog in appreciation of men. So many blogs minimize men and make them out to be some sort of monster.
Men are beautiful, appreciative, amazing gifts and I appreciate all of you. I especially appreciate those of you who make sacrifices for your wife, girlfriend or family. Sacrifices that come in the form of long hours at work, emotional conversations and orgasm control. Men that are self aware enough to be a wonderful partner are at the top of my list. So many of you fellas have contributed on the forum or messaged me separately. It constantly brings me joy to see how many of you are so genuinely interested in being the best partner that you can possibly be. Your journey to become self aware of your emotions and your reproductive drive brings me a tremendous amount of happiness. Grant her power over your body. Show her that you trust her. Accept your body as beautiful. Accept your mind as brilliant. Understand what you can do to live your best life and bring love and joy to those around you. It doesn’t matter to me if you are dominant or submissive, masculine or feminine, you are all men and you are all wonderful.
While I don’t think I can truly understand the difficulty or experience of orgasm control, that doesn’t lessen my appreciation for the selflessness of the act. I won’t belittle you by comparing it to childbirth or menstrual cycles as I’ve seen before. This is different, as are those. Drawing comparison is to minimize and I am only looking to give attention and appreciation.
I am challenged when I read so much of today’s news that tries to convince us that being a man is a shameful thing. It genuinely makes me upset. Men are beautiful. Both physically and emotionally, men are some of the most beautiful people that I’ve encountered in my life. So many incredible men, from my father, my partner and some of my best friends.
I think the cultural shift to shun men for being men is a horrible thing. Gender is a thing but it shouldn’t separate us and it certainly does not define who we are as a person.
Short blog, I just wanted to vent and stress my deep appreciation for you all.