Pegging & Role Reversal

Pegging: It’s All In the Technique

Technique can be difficult for those of us without an appendage dangling between our legs. We weren’t born with a penis so we have to learn technique as we go. Pegging has the reputation of being a punitive act where the woman really shows the man who the boss is. Although Kev and I are guilty of making this joke, that is never the reality.

Pegging is a deeply emotional and sensitive way for a couple to make love. The act of gentle submissions is key and it allows the female to understand what it is to penetrate. For the woman, it can be incredibly empowering. I’ve been known to walk around the house with my strap-on for hours for hours before I intend to use it. It is so flippin cool to have a penis guys! On the other side, the man is able to understand what it is to be penetrated. The man is able to feel a level of intimacy that simply isn’t possible with conventional PIV sex. He is accepting her into his body and it doesn’t feel natural. It feels foreign and it feels completely emotionally overwhelming.

Our favorite type of pegging is deeply sensual, with me laying on top of him. I love feeling my body on top of his, feeling is total submission to me. Feeling each and every twitch and movement as I enter him. Completely erotic!

On his back is another method. The eye contact is uncomfortable until you get over it. Make direct eye contact, smile when it feels good. Eye contact is a wonderful way to create an intimate lovemaking experience.

Doggystyle is fun, this one is somewhat more forceful than you should ever start out but after you work up a good rhythm this looks like a fun time. Wearing pants for pegging isn’t a bad idea especially if you have a harness with straps that can cause irritation.

This one is fun, her smile says it all. Starting with doggy, flipping him over and allowing him to play with himself while she pegs him. I really dig her hair too!

Look at her hands on this, she uses his bum to support herself, she grabs his hip bones to pull him into her. She slides her hands up his body and pushes on his upper back for leverage and support. Very sensual indeed.

Looks how she includes his cage in their pegging play. Kev and I find that keeping him caged is a great way to keep his hands away from his penis and allow him to focus on pleasure inside rather than focusing on his penis for pleasure. His penis can be an unwelcome distraction especially for guys new to experiencing pleasure in their bum bums.

Another video showing a guy who is caged. her hip movements are great but I like to grab his hips, scratch his back and give his body more contact. It especially helps when he is having trouble relaxing. Body contact can give reassurance and help him relax those muscles that are easily tensed when we are anxious.


This one is fun, his caged penis bouncing around uselessly. Kev and I enjoy a bit of playful humiliation and this position with both of us looking at his pink caged cock would give a great opportunity for some SPH banter.

Pegging can be a great way to deepen the sexual bond in a loving relationship. I honesty don’t understand why pegging isn’t more mainstream. The heterosexual phobia of something going in or near their butts is dumb, they are missing out on so much. Pegging adds such a unique dynamic to our relationship, I can’t think of a better way to bring play and perspective to a relationship. I LOVE teasing Kev with pegging memes and texting him sexually playful comments through the day. Our relationship has a wonderful dynamic and I am certain that a great deal of it has to do with the inclusion of pegging in our bedroom. Happy Pegging!


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subhubphx

It’s official. This is my favorite post you have ever put up!

RIChris

For me, the intimacy and eye contact of being on my back is a huge plus. I want to see and experience fully the woman who is inside me, and I want my heart and mind as open to her as my butt is. That feeling is just sublime!

nella_bmar

It’s kinda scary to let someone take charge, to make you submit to them. Even if it’s a plastic toy between you. Being used, broken into, being humiliated, in there only for their pleasure. The first time is embarrassing, and changes how your perceive yourself. By the 5 or 6th time, you’ve already accepted what you really are. Making others happy, letting your pride go, it’s a thing of beauty.

Spfccmt

Excellent post. Pegging is the most emotional sexual experience for men. You surrender all your machismo and receive rather than give. Few things have bonded me more with my mate than our occasional pegging experiences. It breaks down so many barriers.