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Cleaning Up: Quit being squeamish about creampies!

I wrote a blog a few years ago entitled to eat his own where I tasked Kev with tasting his own baby batter. I’ve tasted cum, his tastes as good as most and we know it isn’t going to hurt him. Why do guys make it such a big deal? Is it the fear of gayness that seems ever so prevalent in our culture? We did it as a sort of taboo back in 2017 but we’ve tried it more often lately. Kev isn’t typically allowed to ejaculate in me since we separate orgasm from sex. He does usually ejaculate on me and sometimes it makes me feel powerful to ask for his help cleaning up. This started one time when he ejaculated inside me and I hadn’t yet finished. I needed oral stimulation and wasn’t about to accept his reluctance due to the mess that HE left behind.

Eating his own isn’t inherently a sexy thing to me but one of my biggest turn-ons is acts of service and compassion. Overcoming hang-ups like this for my pleasure is a selfless act to me and it is more representative than anything. When he licks himself up especially as he is providing oral sex to me, it represents putting his love and adoration for me over his own hang ups. It represents his do-anything-for-love without the but-I-won’t-do-that part. Sorry about the Meat Loaf reference. Is Meat Loaf even still alive?

Kev was turned on when I would tease him about eating his cum but after he ejaculated became vehemently opposed to tasting it. I identified this as a level of arousal compulsion and it was something that I toyed with from time to time. It was so very interesting how white and black to him – very interested and aroused pre-ejac and very disinterested post-ejac. I may have to write about arousal compulsion sometime.


After a period of desensitization, we now do this fairly frequently due mostly to how simple it makes clean-up. This was never a hard limit for Kev and I of course would not have pushed him past a hard limit. We both enjoy identifying and pushing his soft limits so it became something I teased often. Once I find those buttons, I keep pushing until the tension and fun is exhausted.

Our cultural views about sperm have evolved over human history. From ancient Egyptian Semen Battles to the beleif that your baby’s bones are formed from sperm. These myths are of course brought to you by the same people that told us menstrual blood causes cyclones and kills bees which are both facts that are now widely accepted by the scientific community. Right?

Now I’m curious so here are some questions for you:

  • Do you see it as an act of loving service like I do?
  • Does the phrase cum eating cause a gasp in your relationship or have you desensitized yourself to it?
  • Is this a hard limit in your relationship? Have you tested it?
  • Ladies, is cum eating sexy to you and if so what aspect makes it sexy?
  • What would your fella do when you say those magic words “Ok now lick it up for me” in your sexiest of voices?

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Pancake

I have to say I never thought of it like that and you’re right there is nothing scarey about cum.

Nika

   Do you see it as an act of loving service like I do?

I see it as an act of deep submission to me.

   Does the phrase cum eating cause a gasp in your relationship or have you desensitized yourself to it?

In a “matured” FLR there won’t be gasps. If I want him to eat it, he wants to eat it. He’s very eager to do it for me.

   Is this a hard limit in your relationship? Have you tested it?

No, it not a hard limit.

   Ladies, is cum eating sexy to you and if so what aspect makes it sexy?

It is extremely erotic to witness it. His demonstration of his submission I guess. Its hard to explain.

   What would your fella do when you say those magic words “Ok now lick it up for me” in your sexiest of voices?

He eats it.

Brian

I’ve never had any issues with my own cum. Always thought it quite good so clean up has never really been a challenge 🙂

You mention hard limits. I think thats a really interesting topic. Deserves it own post.

midlife_marty

We don’t do this often but I say, yes, it’s an act of service in my opinion. I think that one of the reasons why we don’t do it more often is that by the time I cum, she has already climaxed a few times and she’s too sensitive for me to lick down there.

The first time she had me do it was a different routine. She had me rub shaft up and down her labia and clit. When I said I was close to cumming, she told me I was going to fill her lips with it and then lick it out. I was so excited by this.

Like many guys, I felt my enthusiasm drop immediately after cumming. But my wife stayed strong and ordered me to lick it up. That assertiveness did the trick and I tucked in. I didn’t love the taste or texture but it wasn’t that bad either.

My wife eventually said I didn’t have to finish it all and she used the last of it as lube to finger herself to a finish, which was pretty hot too.

When I think about it afterwards, I want to eat it again, especially if “made” to do it. I asked her if she would snowball me. She had to look that up and then she laughed and said it was just too gross. Never say never…

Matthew989

It’s a wonderful way to re-establish the relationship dynamic in the post orgasm drop experienced by many men. We’ve recently re-established this as a strict condition for my weekly orgasm. I love the way my wife pushes me down there!

NEWBREIZH

Hello

First of all, congratulations on your blog which is really fantastic and very well documented, it is really a great source of inspiration.
Regarding creampies, for me it's really a very strong fantasy even if it happens that I do it alone after a prostate orgasm.
When the man is aroused he can do anything and everything at the request of his partner (KH), but after having ejaculated it really takes a lot of willpower.
As a pledge of submission, I would like my partner to impose it on me. I will be very proud of it
Russ195

I used to clean my wife all the time. Like a lot of men, I would lost interest as soon as I came, but being a fast finisher sometimes, I would go down on her to finish her off. She loves me licking around her hole, so I would do that and lick up my cum as I did. After a while, it just became something I did almost every time we had sex.

subhubphx

Meat still alive? I remember him saying he would her till the end of time and then shortly after he was praying for the end of time. So who knows if he’s actually still alive?

Anyway, I think this is an excellent blog Emma. “Cum eating” is of course one of those personal taste matters for people. Like Kevin, most men find the idea of being required to do it very arousing when they’re all horned up. After cumming, and after all of those lovely chemicals rushed out of our bodies, we have a completely different opinion on the matter. Side note, there is no arousal fall-off after a ruined orgasm which plays very well into the act of cum eating. Another great benefit of ruined orgasms.

Clearly there are many FLR/WLM couples that engage in this “requirement” as a normally course of activity. For many its a normal ‘You will consume ANY and ALL of your ejaculate immediately after it leaves your body’ thing because it is what the Dominant female has decided will happen. Of course the man’s limits must be respected, but if its not a hard limit for him, and if it something that She wants, then it is how it will be.

My beautiful Wife happens to not think it is something she would want me to do. I don’t really know why but I suspect that she thinks that I am so opposed to it that she doesn’t even lookin that direction out of a sense of kindness. It’s something we’ve talked about and her response has mostly been “eew, no”. We don’t talk about it often but it does come up in some of our Sunday morning reading sessions where I print out some of the better blog and internet things I come across during the week. That said, the time we reviewed such blogs it did come up and her response was not the usual “eeew gross” but rather an inquisitive “hmmm”. I attribute change of demeanor to Her/our evolution of our relationship.

The context of what we were reviewing was much like the context you have portrayed here. It’s not the physical act itself that is arousing to the Domme, but rather the meaning for it. As you said:

“Eating his own isn’t inherently a sexy thing to me but one of my biggest turn-ons is acts of service and compassion. Overcoming hang-ups like this for my pleasure is a selfless act to me and it is more representative than anything. When he licks himself up especially as he is providing oral sex to me, it represents putting his love and adoration for me over his own hang ups. It represents his do-anything-for-love without the but-I-won’t-do-that part.”

Ms. K. and I have very good knowledge of our limits, both hard and soft. Cum eating is not a hard limit for either of us and I’m not even sure it has been identified (communication) as even a soft limit. I believe it has merely existed in the never-thought-about-it category. 

Would I do it if it were something that Ms. K. found pleasurable or even just necessary? Yes I would! Would I enjoy it? Probably not at first but of course over time it would very likely turn into one those things I might even look forward to as a demonstration of my “I would do anything for love” desires that I have for her. I’ve likened it to receiving a spanking in the past. A punishment spanking is one of the things in our that I never look forward to because, well it hurts. But, I far and away prefer and enjoy the act of presenting myself for and receiving my spankings because it is and has been an integral part of life together. In other words, I don’t like the stinging red bottom but I LOVE what it represents for us. 

Since I’ve already told you I thought this was an excellent blog Emma, it will go into the rotation of articles we review on Sunday mornings in the near future.

LuckyMan

I would like my wife to ask me to clean up. She is a little hung up on fully enjoying oral.

soundsofdelight

Like and I’ve never had a problem eating ‘baby batter’, and can’t see why there should be. I love going down on MsWife after a love-making session to clean up but equally applies to after having received a HJ or given myself one.

HappyCuckold

I am definitely squeamish about eating cum, but I would absolutely do it if my wife wanted me too. Fortunately–or maybe unfortunately–she doesn’t ask me to do that. I have, as an experiment, consumed my own semen after masturbating. I fantasized that my wife had ordered me to do it. That made it very sexy until the moment I came. Then I had to force myself. The taste isn’t bad, but the texture is yucky. But then, that is true of raw oysters too, and one can develop a taste for them. I would probably be even more squeamish if my wife asked me to “clean” her after she had unprotected sex with another man. But, once again, the idea of being “forced” to do that turns me on. Then again, it might be easier to overcome my squeamishness in that case because I would not have had an orgasm myself, and I always get extremely horny when my wife is with another man. However, she never brings a “creampie” home because she practices safe sex, using a condom.

Brian

Hahaha. Its amazing whats easy when one is horny 🙂