I wrote a blog a few years ago entitled to eat his own where I tasked Kev with tasting his own baby batter. I’ve tasted cum, his tastes as good as most and we know it isn’t going to hurt him. Why do guys make it such a big deal? Is it the fear of gayness that seems ever so prevalent in our culture? We did it as a sort of taboo back in 2017 but we’ve tried it more often lately. Kev isn’t typically allowed to ejaculate in me since we separate orgasm from sex. He does usually ejaculate on me and sometimes it makes me feel powerful to ask for his help cleaning up. This started one time when he ejaculated inside me and I hadn’t yet finished. I needed oral stimulation and wasn’t about to accept his reluctance due to the mess that HE left behind.
Eating his own isn’t inherently a sexy thing to me but one of my biggest turn-ons is acts of service and compassion. Overcoming hang-ups like this for my pleasure is a selfless act to me and it is more representative than anything. When he licks himself up especially as he is providing oral sex to me, it represents putting his love and adoration for me over his own hang ups. It represents his do-anything-for-love without the but-I-won’t-do-that part. Sorry about the Meat Loaf reference. Is Meat Loaf even still alive?
Kev was turned on when I would tease him about eating his cum but after he ejaculated became vehemently opposed to tasting it. I identified this as a level of arousal compulsion and it was something that I toyed with from time to time. It was so very interesting how white and black to him – very interested and aroused pre-ejac and very disinterested post-ejac. I may have to write about arousal compulsion sometime.
After a period of desensitization, we now do this fairly frequently due mostly to how simple it makes clean-up. This was never a hard limit for Kev and I of course would not have pushed him past a hard limit. We both enjoy identifying and pushing his soft limits so it became something I teased often. Once I find those buttons, I keep pushing until the tension and fun is exhausted.
Our cultural views about sperm have evolved over human history. From ancient Egyptian Semen Battles to the beleif that your baby’s bones are formed from sperm. These myths are of course brought to you by the same people that told us menstrual blood causes cyclones and kills bees which are both facts that are now widely accepted by the scientific community. Right?
Now I’m curious so here are some questions for you:
- Do you see it as an act of loving service like I do?
- Does the phrase cum eating cause a gasp in your relationship or have you desensitized yourself to it?
- Is this a hard limit in your relationship? Have you tested it?
- Ladies, is cum eating sexy to you and if so what aspect makes it sexy?
- What would your fella do when you say those magic words “Ok now lick it up for me” in your sexiest of voices?