First off what is a femdom handjob? The definition is incredibly broad, a femdom handjob is any type of handjob where the female is dominant. That is an incredibly broad definition for an incredibly broad and fun type of handjob. While we might get caught up with this idea of needing to be a dominatrix, it really isn't. A femdom handjob is any handjob where the female is in the slightest bit of control. With this blog I'm trying something new with a mixed content post with accompanying videos, I think my website can support videos but I don't know for sure. I like to push the limits of everything, what can I say? Let me know if you like this style of post in the comments below.
The balance of pleasure with the painful agony of some loving CBT is enough to take some guys over the top. Stroke him until he is hard and tap the little boys, alternate as desired until you decide to stop. For bonus points, you can even do this while he is locked without the accompanying pleasure of the handjob.
Great post, Emma! When you think about it, every handjob is a femdom handjob because the woman is in control. She can do it quickly . She can draw it out. She can stop and start. She can start and stop before finishing. She can tease by caressing the stomach and the thighs, coming close to touching the penis over and over, raising hopes that she will touch the penis, but never quite doing it, keeping the guy in suspense.
When the relationship involves cuckolding, being limited to handjobs while the other man gets to f**k is wonderfully humiliating. I have had my best orgasms from handjobs during which my wife teases me about how much larger her lover is and that’s why I don’t get to f**k anymore.
I didn’t know there was a name for it, but my wife is a master (or mistress?) of what you have named “the distracted handjob”. That usually happens after she has had a couple of orgasms from oral sex or from playing with sex toys, and she decides to reward me with a handjob. She doesn’t like me to cum on her hand, so I have to kneel on all fours with a towel under me to catch the ejaculate. Since she has already been satisfied, she seems sleepy and disinterested while she lazily pumps my cock. Sometimes she just holds it, and I have to do the work to reach orgasm, gyrating and thrusting, basically humping her hand. Sometimes she seems close to sleep by the time I finish.
I love your idea of a Red Light-Green Light game.
Good one Emma. There are so many variations to this and depending on the goal for the Mistress (allowing me to orgasm, ruined orgasm, taken to the edge, denied then re-caged), something that we focus on frequently is the ‘no work for her hand job’. It’s very simple really. When I am offered the opportunity to have my erect cock stimulated, Ms. K. will sometimes (often) hold her hand in the classic hand job shape, and simply required that I do all the work by being told to fuck her hand. I especially enjoy when I’ve just delivered her coffee in bed, and I stand at her side of the bed and fuck her hand while she enjoys her HGTV shows, even talking about how she would like to do some home improvement things like on the screen.
Yes, my wife also does the “no work for her handjob”! I see that as a variation of what Emma called “the distracted or ignored handjob.” It has a wonderful D/s power vibe to it, doesn’t it.
Wife mistress give me hand job monthly with ruined orgasm and back my penis in cage.
Great article, my wife makes me count or recite a passage of text she asked me to memorise. It really takes the fun out of it and is quite humilating
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