First, let's chat about the science behind all this. Pavlovian (or classical) conditioning is a learning process that creates associations between a naturally occurring stimulus and a previously neutral one. Think of Pavlov's famous experiment where dogs were conditioned to salivate at the sound of a bell because they associated it with food.
In our sexy scenario, the "food" is your man's orgasm, and the "bell" is the thought or sight of you with another man. By consistently pairing his orgasm with cuckold stimuli, you can condition him to become aroused by these scenarios.
Studies show that Pavlovian conditioning isn't just for dogs! Human sexual arousal can be conditioned in similar ways. A study published in the Journal of Sex Research found that sexual preferences and arousal patterns can be shaped through classical conditioning.
A study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that exposure to sexual stimuli can significantly influence sexual preferences and arousal patterns. This is how many sexual fetishes begin. If you smell mahogany wood every time you masturbated in your parent's basement growing up, you may associate the smell of mahogany with sexual arousal.
Now, let's get down to the nitty-gritty of how you can condition your man's orgasms to be tied to cuckolding or other stimuli. Before diving in, have an open conversation with your partner about your goals and boundaries. Ensure you both are comfortable with the idea and understand the process.
Start by introducing cuckold-related content during your intimate moments. This could be watching cuckold porn together or reading erotic stories that involve cuckolding. The goal is to create a positive association between his arousal and the idea of you with another man.…
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It is impossible not to end up as a submissive at your wife’s feet eager to be her happy cuckold with this wicked conditioning!
Thank you.
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Something that really brought the understanding of my position in the relationship, is when she fucks a guy with a cock that is only half the size of mine. She tells me he is a much better fuck than I am. Then I am expected to lick and suck him hard again. She knows how much I dislike sucking little cocks, and I think this really brings into focus the need for her enjoyment, and not mine.
That’s interesting
Most guys find the allure of better sex attached to the idea of a bigger cock satisfying their wife better. Frankly that’s the part of it that I enjoy more aside from the whole newness aspect. What reasons (if any) does she give for why he is a better fuck?