In our cuckold journey, Kev and I have come across a few different bulls—each one bringing their unique flair to the dynamic we share. Contrary to popular assumption, I don’t have an endless rotation of partners. Our connections with bulls are usually long-lasting, and we keep our circle small. While these relationships often begin with a certain dynamic depending on the his bullish personality, they tend to evolve into something deeper and more personal and ultimately settle at the appropriate spot on the relationship escalator. Today, I want to share a few insights from these adventures and shed some light on how we keep things flirty, fun, safe and respectful.
Every bull relationship we’ve had tends to fall into a couple of general categories, and yet each is unique. From the initial meet-and-greet to the first time we invite them into our intimate lives, each bull’s personality plays a huge role in setting the tone. In the early stages, we keep things light and make sure to handle all the light teasing and playful humiliation with Kev by myself. It’s important to me that Kev feels safe, comfortable, and respected. I know our boundaries best, and by keeping the early moments light and friendly, we set the stage for a healthy dynamic.
While I enjoy adding some extra heat to our cuckold sessions through humiliation, it’s essential to me that only I initiate this kind of interaction. Humiliation is intimate and personal and the boundaries can be complex, often depending on his frame of mind. Sharing that aspect with another person only happens when I trust that they will understand and respect Kev’s boundaries.
One of the most important things in our dynamic is making sure everyone involved understands that this is role play—an exciting adventure designed to enrich all of us. It’s about Kev as much as it’s about me, perhaps more-so and if a bull doesn’t understand that or treat us both respectfully, then he’s simply not the right match. Respect is sexy.
Kev is fully aware of his place in these relationships, and we talk openly about the dynamic we want to create with each bull. He knows exactly how these men view him, and this transparency gives him the confidence to enjoy the experience fully. When he sees the respect and boundaries established from the get-go, he feels more secure, and it allows us to dive into these experiences with trust and enjoyment.
My longest relationship with a bull is with Erik, a handsome, dark-haired, tall, Asian guy who’s been in our lives for just shy of six months. This is the first time I’ve developed a deeper emotional connection with a bull, taking our dynamic from simple physical fun to what I like to call a “cuckold boyfriend.” I caught feelings for Erik, but don’t worry—Kev has been a very close part of this connection from the very start.…
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