Alright, let’s rip the band-aid off this one - every woman is a gold digger.
Say what, Emma? Yep. I said it. But before you roll your eyes or accuse me of generalization or internalized misogyny, pause and let me explain—because this isn’t a takedown of women. It’s the ultimate defense of our nature. Our instincts. Our beautifully wired biology. This is a love letter to women who know what they need and aren’t ashamed to ask for it. And it’s a wake-up call to men who still don’t get that security is both essential and sexy.
Because listen—I’m not saying she needs a yacht or a Ferrari. Most women don’t want excess. We want comfort and ease. And those two things are wildly different.
Let me say it plain: she wants to be able to take a deep breath in her own home without the weight of overdue bills or burnout whispering in her ear. She wants to relax. She wants time. She wants freedom. And she wants a partner who can help create that life with her—not drag her into chaos.
Let’s go primal and strip away the social media filters, the love languages, and the capitalist fluff. Women are wired to seek procreation, safety, provision, stability and protection.
We’re hard-coded for it. And no, it’s not because we’re weak. Quite the opposite—we’re evolutionary strategists. Survival queens. In ancient times, a woman wouldn’t choose the man with the best dance moves or the biggest biceps—she’d choose the one with the biggest pile of berries. The one who could fight off a saber-toothed tiger, patch up the cave roof, and still have time to roast a rabbit over the fire. Why? Because survival is sexy.…
Ok this one this is true at first I was about to argue hey woman come in all flavors from the title….
But as I went down reading I saw you put to pen 🖊️ what I did for my wife on instinct I do have however a nother truth to bring to the table
It’s not just woman who need this nowadays people have become lost in this new model of madness men need guidance not on a FLR thing they need crash course how to be a man 101
As I got older more and more guys came to me Len how do you do it ? I’m not handsome I’m loud I’m ruff….. And probably smell bad most of the time …. And yet here I am always have friends men and woman jumping for my attention
I got a new nick name the man whisper 😆….. It took years for me to figure out what was going on I was my dad I became strong independent and thoughtful
This piece of thought right here is bang on good job Emma it puts into words what both men and women need to hear in a way they can process
Keep up the epic work 👍
You think she’s “only after your money”? Maybe what she’s actually after is peace of mind. A life she can actually enjoy. A relationship where she’s not spending her precious time and energy mothering you and fighting off bill collectors.
Yes – This makes sense. I saw this play out many years ago when I was a young man. Most young ladies I knew just out of high school or college wanted a nice little house with the white picket fence, a couple of kiddos, a baby carriage to walk in front of their girlfriends, the bills paid, and some extra dollars left over for a rainy day. Meanwhile – – over on the male side, the young husband or B/F is looking over his (not so) generous paycheck, trying to find a way to support his lady in the manner in which she would like, and coming up with a poor enough answer.
It’s a pity America doesn’t support women and families the way European nations do. Yes, they pay more in taxes, but they get paid sick and employment leave for both spouses, housing subsidies and medical benefits unavailable to most young Americans. I think I was born on the wrong continent.
Again I agree with you 👍
I agree with you also, I only really have America as context here but I heard from a Swiss friend that they get months off for maternity leave and even paternity leave for the fellas. Your cheese may have holes in it but your sense of social responsibility doesn’t.