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The Psychology of Bringing it Home: Cuckolding In The Marriage Bed

Cuckolding is a dynamic that already requires immense trust, communication, and emotional vulnerability. Moving it from neutral spaces like hotels or the bull’s home into the couple’s shared bed...

The Modern Marriage Cycle: Enthusiasm, Hierarchical Play, and Emotional Detachment

Relationships are living, breathing things. They evolve, shift, and move through different emotional and psychological phases. In the context of female-led relationships (FLR) and cuckold dynamics, these shifts take...

Simulated Cuckoldry: A Safe and Thrilling Step into Cuckold Fantasy

Cuckold dynamics can bring layers of spice, trust, and connection to a relationship. For couples curious about the idea but hesitant to include a third person, simulated cuckold experiences...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 31

She unsnapped my garter straps to keep them from interfering, her movements slow and deliberate.

How I Embraced My Needs and Found Passion Beyond the Boyfriend Dick

When I married Kev, I never thought much about his size. In fact, I didn’t think size mattered much at all. He has what is a mostly average penis...

Small Penis Relationship (SPR): Do Smaller Men Make the Best Long-Term Partners?

How exactly does penis size relate to your relationship dynamic? Does a small penis relationship (SPR) fare better than a large penis relationship over time? We live in a...

Cuckold Fetish: My Husband Wants to be a Cuck!

The allure of a cuckold fetish among men especially those with highly educated, strong, intelligent, independent wives may seem puzzling at first glance, but it often makes sense when...

How to Choose the Perfect Bull for Cuckold Relationships: 10 Important Considerations

When it comes to choosing the perfect bull for cuckold relationships, it’s vital to consider both the wife’s desires and the husband’s boundaries. Cuckold relationships, where the wife engages...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 30

I slipped off her heels and began kneading her soles. The low groans of pleasure told me I was doing a good job, and I took my time, working out the tension from her long day.

Evolutionary Reasons for Hotwifing

I received this from a reader and I wanted to share it because I think it adds to the conversation and aligns with some of the evolutionary sexuality pieces...

Is Your Cuckold Relationship a Lie? 10 Questions About the Authenticity of Your Modern Marriage

Is your cuckold relationship a lie? There's the romanticized fantasy that many people envision, where the husband is actively involved, excited, and aroused by the idea of watching his...

What Is a Non-Penetrative Marriage? Redefining Intimacy Beyond Traditional Boundaries

When it comes to intimacy, many people default to the assumption that penetration is the ultimate expression of connection. However, for some couples, this simply isn’t the case. The...

Personal Empowerment: The Single Most Attractive Trait a Man Can Have

When we talk about what makes someone truly attractive, we often think of surface qualities—looks, charm, humor, or even wealth. But beneath those traits lies something far more potent:...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 29

I felt a slight twinge of nervousness at her tone... I knew what was coming. It was either pegging or cuckolding, and I don’t know which worried me more.

Navigating Cuckold Pain: A Journey of Acceptance

Cuckolding is a relationship dynamic that is often misunderstood and stigmatized, by mainstream culture. For some, it’s a thrilling way to explore sexual boundaries and power dynamics, while for...

Why Women Lose Interest in Sex—and How Men Can Fix It

If you’ve known anyone in a long-term relationship for a long period of time, you’ve probably heard some version of the complaint that women lose interest in sex. "She...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 28

My name is John, though I go by rgjohn, and I’ve written a few erotic books and some content for Literotica. When Emma read my work, she suggested I...

6 Steps to Cleanup For Pegging and Better Anal Play

Even though I haven’t spent much time around barfy, poopy little humans or been desensitized by the endless diaper cleanups that come with parenthood, I’ll be the first to...

Cuckold Husbands and Their Parallels to Non-Breeding Males in the Animal Kingdom

In the natural world, not every male has the dominant, roaring, gene-spreading alpha role. Some get pushed aside, some get demoted to background characters of nature's breeding ground. Others...

Daily Affirmations: Strengthening Devotion & Submission in Your Female Led Relationship (FLR)

Female-led relationships (FLRs) thrive on structure, devotion, and intentional acts of submission. While every dynamic is unique, incorporating daily affirmations and rituals can reinforce a man’s commitment to his...

Neoteny: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction and Lasting Passion in Relationships

The definition of neoteny is the retention of youthful traits into adulthood and the word has long been recognized in evolutionary biology for physical traits related to maintaining a...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 27

I was in my office when Anna came home from her annual doctor’s visit, her face glowing with a satisfied smile. “My physical went great,” she announced. “I think I love my doctor even more after this visit.”

Our Path Through Kink Progression: Emma and Kev’s Story

Looking back at the journey Kev and I have taken together on this blog feels a bit like flipping through the pages of a novel of our relationship. Each...

The Capitulation – Female Led Relationship (FLR)

As a married couple we get along quite well. But from time to time I am suspicious she is doing something behind my back, though I can never prove it. One day I get irrefutable evidence about a liaison she just had with another guy.

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 26

Sally arrived at the condo shortly after dropping Anna off at the airport. I was nervous to say the least. When she walked through the door, pulling a large suitcase behind her, I couldn’t help but raise an eyebrow.

What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM

For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....

Punishment & Correction

2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...

Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...

Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend

One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...

Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!

We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...

Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....

The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...

Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity

Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...

FLR101 – Read this first

I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider.  Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...

Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective

This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...