So my wife and I are participating in locktober kinda. I have been let out for specific reasons. But I've been trying hard to not have any kind of orgasm unless she lets me....such as a ruined one. The question is, is a ruined one allowed or did we fail locktober.
I feel like there should be less vague guidelines for newbies.
The question is, is a ruined one allowed or did we fail locktober.
IMHO ... pass or fail is never a question. There is no doing it wrong, whether it's October or any other time for that matter. What matters is what your wife says will happen. If she is kind enough to allow you a ruined orgasm, or evena full-on orgasm .... you succeded and didn't fail.
Well she's also new to chastity and domination so I'm kinda topping from the bottom to guide her but trying not to do so in a manner that prevents her from trying to find her own way. This time around tho I told her I was going to try to stay in the cage a full week before releasing for cleaning. And then I guess we'll see how that goes