If you don’t want to go down that path, I think you should reframe your idea of submission to completely separate it from being helpless and incapable...

I don’t even see humiliation as always being born from insecurities. It can just be a way to amplify the other partner’s dominance. “Being humbled” ca...

I guess that’s where a foundation of trust comes in. You don’t give any woman the last word; you give it to one woman who you trust unconditionally an...

That’s terrible. I’m very sorry to hear that. If I was in your place, I would stop operating as if I was in an FLR. I hate to say it, but it sounds ...

You mentioned in your last post that whenever Emma set a new term, you knew it was non-negotiable and “my way or the highway.” Was there any time you ...

I’ve learned that tit-for-tat bartering doesn’t work and only leads to guilt sex or obligation sex, which isn’t enjoyable for the woman or man. It’s...