Eating his own isn’t inherently a sexy thing to me but one of my biggest turn-ons is acts of service and compassion. Overcoming hang-ups like this for my pleasure is a selfless act to me and it is more representative than anything. When he licks himself up especially as he is providing oral sex to me, it represents putting his love and adoration for me over his own hang ups. It represents his do-anything-for-love without the but-I-won’t-do-that part. Sorry about the Meat Loaf reference. Is Meat Loaf even still alive?
Kev was turned on when I would tease him about eating his cum but after he ejaculated became vehemently opposed to tasting it. I identified this as a level of arousal compulsion and it was something that I toyed with from time to time. It was so very interesting how white and black to him – very interested and aroused pre-ejac and very disinterested post-ejac. I may have to write about arousal compulsion sometime.
After a period of desensitization, we now do this fairly frequently due mostly to how simple it makes clean-up. This was never a hard limit for Kev and I of course would not have pushed him past a hard limit. We both enjoy identifying and pushing his soft limits so it became something I teased often. Once I find those buttons, I keep pushing until the tension and fun is exhausted.
Our cultural views about sperm have evolved over human history. From ancient Egyptian Semen Battles to the beleif that your baby’s bones are formed from sperm. These myths are of course brought to you by the same people that told us menstrual blood causes cyclones and kills bees which are both facts that are now widely accepted by the scientific community. Right?
Now I’m curious so here are some questions for you:
- Do you see it as an act of loving service like I do?
- Does the phrase cum eating cause a gasp in your relationship or have you desensitized yourself to it?
- Is this a hard limit in your relationship? Have you tested it?
- Ladies, is cum eating sexy to you and if so what aspect makes it sexy?
- What would your fella do when you say those magic words “Ok now lick it up for me” in your sexiest of voices?
I have to say I never thought of it like that and you’re right there is nothing scarey about cum.
Do you see it as an act of loving service like I do?
I see it as an act of deep submission to me.
Does the phrase cum eating cause a gasp in your relationship or have you desensitized yourself to it?
In a “matured” FLR there won’t be gasps. If I want him to eat it, he wants to eat it. He’s very eager to do it for me.
Is this a hard limit in your relationship? Have you tested it?
No, it not a hard limit.
Ladies, is cum eating sexy to you and if so what aspect makes it sexy?
It is extremely erotic to witness it. His demonstration of his submission I guess. Its hard to explain.
What would your fella do when you say those magic words “Ok now lick it up for me” in your sexiest of voices?
He eats it.
You sound like my wife! She sees this as a practical way of dealing with the mess while delegating this task to me
I’ve never had any issues with my own cum. Always thought it quite good so clean up has never really been a challenge 🙂
You mention hard limits. I think thats a really interesting topic. Deserves it own post.
We don’t do this often but I say, yes, it’s an act of service in my opinion. I think that one of the reasons why we don’t do it more often is that by the time I cum, she has already climaxed a few times and she’s too sensitive for me to lick down there.
The first time she had me do it was a different routine. She had me rub shaft up and down her labia and clit. When I said I was close to cumming, she told me I was going to fill her lips with it and then lick it out. I was so excited by this.
Like many guys, I felt my enthusiasm drop immediately after cumming. But my wife stayed strong and ordered me to lick it up. That assertiveness did the trick and I tucked in. I didn’t love the taste or texture but it wasn’t that bad either.
My wife eventually said I didn’t have to finish it all and she used the last of it as lube to finger herself to a finish, which was pretty hot too.
When I think about it afterwards, I want to eat it again, especially if “made” to do it. I asked her if she would snowball me. She had to look that up and then she laughed and said it was just too gross. Never say never…
It’s a wonderful way to re-establish the relationship dynamic in the post orgasm drop experienced by many men. We’ve recently re-established this as a strict condition for my weekly orgasm. I love the way my wife pushes me down there!
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I used to clean my wife all the time. Like a lot of men, I would lost interest as soon as I came, but being a fast finisher sometimes, I would go down on her to finish her off. She loves me licking around her hole, so I would do that and lick up my cum as I did. After a while, it just became something I did almost every time we had sex.
Meat still alive? I remember him saying he would her till the end of time and then shortly after he was praying for the end of time. So who knows if he’s actually still alive?
Anyway, I think this is an excellent blog Emma. “Cum eating” is of course one of those personal taste matters for people. Like Kevin, most men find the idea of being required to do it very arousing when they’re all horned up. After cumming, and after all of those lovely chemicals rushed out of our bodies, we have a completely different opinion on the matter. Side note, there is no arousal fall-off after a ruined orgasm which plays very well into the act of cum eating. Another great benefit of ruined orgasms.
Clearly there are many FLR/WLM couples that engage in this “requirement” as a normally course of activity. For many its a normal ‘You will consume ANY and ALL of your ejaculate immediately after it leaves your body’ thing because it is what the Dominant female has decided will happen. Of course the man’s limits must be respected, but if its not a hard limit for him, and if it something that She wants, then it is how it will be.
My beautiful Wife happens to not think it is something she would want me to do. I don’t really know why but I suspect that she thinks that I am so opposed to it that she doesn’t even lookin that direction out of a sense of kindness. It’s something we’ve talked about and her response has mostly been “eew, no”. We don’t talk about it often but it does come up in some of our Sunday morning reading sessions where I print out some of the better blog and internet things I come across during the week. That said, the time we reviewed such blogs it did come up and her response was not the usual “eeew gross” but rather an inquisitive “hmmm”. I attribute change of demeanor to Her/our evolution of our relationship.
The context of what we were reviewing was much like the context you have portrayed here. It’s not the physical act itself that is arousing to the Domme, but rather the meaning for it. As you said:
“Eating his own isn’t inherently a sexy thing to me but one of my biggest turn-ons is acts of service and compassion. Overcoming hang-ups like this for my pleasure is a selfless act to me and it is more representative than anything. When he licks himself up especially as he is providing oral sex to me, it represents putting his love and adoration for me over his own hang ups. It represents his do-anything-for-love without the but-I-won’t-do-that part.”
Ms. K. and I have very good knowledge of our limits, both hard and soft. Cum eating is not a hard limit for either of us and I’m not even sure it has been identified (communication) as even a soft limit. I believe it has merely existed in the never-thought-about-it category.
Would I do it if it were something that Ms. K. found pleasurable or even just necessary? Yes I would! Would I enjoy it? Probably not at first but of course over time it would very likely turn into one those things I might even look forward to as a demonstration of my “I would do anything for love” desires that I have for her. I’ve likened it to receiving a spanking in the past. A punishment spanking is one of the things in our that I never look forward to because, well it hurts. But, I far and away prefer and enjoy the act of presenting myself for and receiving my spankings because it is and has been an integral part of life together. In other words, I don’t like the stinging red bottom but I LOVE what it represents for us.
Since I’ve already told you I thought this was an excellent blog Emma, it will go into the rotation of articles we review on Sunday mornings in the near future.
I would like my wife to ask me to clean up. She is a little hung up on fully enjoying oral.
Like @Pancake and @Brian I’ve never had a problem eating ‘baby batter’, and can’t see why there should be. I love going down on MsWife after a love-making session to clean up but equally applies to after having received a HJ or given myself one.
I am definitely squeamish about eating cum, but I would absolutely do it if my wife wanted me too. Fortunately–or maybe unfortunately–she doesn’t ask me to do that. I have, as an experiment, consumed my own semen after masturbating. I fantasized that my wife had ordered me to do it. That made it very sexy until the moment I came. Then I had to force myself. The taste isn’t bad, but the texture is yucky. But then, that is true of raw oysters too, and one can develop a taste for them. I would probably be even more squeamish if my wife asked me to “clean” her after she had unprotected sex with another man. But, once again, the idea of being “forced” to do that turns me on. Then again, it might be easier to overcome my squeamishness in that case because I would not have had an orgasm myself, and I always get extremely horny when my wife is with another man. However, she never brings a “creampie” home because she practices safe sex, using a condom.
Hahaha. Its amazing whats easy when one is horny 🙂
As mentioned by several other men here, the idea of eating my cum is very exciting before orgasm, not so much afterward. I also love the idea of being made or told to eat it. At times we have made it a “policy” that if I did orgasm without permission I would have to eat it. But if my wife does not tell me to do so, it probably does not happen.
In my pre-orgasm mind I want to be required to consume it since it is so rare anyway. My last two orgasms have been 3 months apart, so orgasm control and denial is setting in well, be careful what you wish for!
Thanks for another great post.
My wife never has me clean her after I have cum in her, but she has me clean her cream pie after her boyfriend has cum in her.
Just wondering if Kevin ever had a cream pie after Andrew came in you.
She does not want oral sex, so that makes this simpler. If she asked me to clean her with my tongue, I would do so, since I do what she asks, even when I don’t want to. It’s definitely not on my bucket list, though. (I do so badly want to be able to give her pleasure and orgasms with my tongue, so that is always on my list.)
We actually have practiced this two different ways:
1) The traditional creampie where I go down and lick her to multiple orgasms after I have already cum inside of her. I find this especially erotic because it is so “dirty”. I actually did this on my own without her asking for it. As I was about to go in she just asked “are you sure? It is messy down there.” And I was sure… and she came hard and then came again which made it worth it.
2) After I have cum in her mouth (a rare treat) she will almost always spit it out. But sometimes the mood will strike her and she will stand up and give me a french kiss pushing all of my cum back into my mouth. This to me is both the hardest and the hottest way of doing it. It is the hardest because it is so thick and gooey and isn’t diluted by the wonderful flavor of her pussy but it is the hottest because she is in total control and “forces” me (not in a bad way) to do it by choosing when she wants me to do it and just planting it on me. I could of course spit it out but I don’t – I always swallow as she wants me to.
It turns both of us on that only one party in our marriage has ever swallowed semen and it isn’t her!
Sacarle al sumiso el compromiso de que comerá su semen antes de eyacular no es muy difícil, dependerá del tiempo que lleva sin cum, lo difícil es hacer que cumpla su promesa una vez que eyacula con un orgasmo completo su cuerpo se inunda de hormonas que hacen que se relaje y pierda el interés por el sexo.
Toca actuar rápido sobre todo al principio y no dejarle pensar y obligarlo a cumplir antes que se enfrié su pasión. La idea es que se acostumbre a su sabor y que pierda el asco que en un principio le tiene, tu sabes bien el sabor del semen de tu hombre y no es para tanto. ¿Verdad? ,más bien es una barrera psicológica, con un poco de persuasión no será tan difícil romper esa barrera y convencerlo después de todo antes tu misma te lo tragabas y a el bien que le gustaba. A llegado la hora que devuelva y con intereses esos favores que recibió en el pasado.
Aquí tienes el reto… el guante esta tirado. ¿ Serás capaz de conseguirlo?
Así pues ponlo en cuatro, Atalo para que no pueda irse y ordéñalo, con una buena paja a tu gusto, ves recordándole su promesa, para la estimulación de inmediato si no contesta afirmativamente, acaricia lo juega con su puerta trasera en fin haz que te ruegue un poco… Al final cuando se corra con el cuenco de tu mano recoge sus primeras andanadas de semen y rápidamente pónselo frente a su boca, no esperes que termine de correrse y se enfrié su entusiasmo, si no lame tu mano como prometió con tu otra mano coge su nariz ciérrala y levántale la cara y cuando abra la boca para respirar métele su lefa caliente en su boca , amenázalo con semanas de castidad y servicio si lo escupe…
Seguramente no llegara la sangre al rio, por que si esta acostumbrado a obedecerte lamerá como un gatito tu mano, si es así no olvides recoger lo que se quedo en las sabanas, y ofréceselo amorosamente y alábalo por su obediencia. No olvides recitarle tu nueva regla: ” Si te corres te lo comes“.
Si lo hiciste rogar como te comente seguro que no tardara mucho en pedir otra sesión y cumplir la nueva regla de oro. Quizás ahora mismo.. Ja ja. FCM
Edit (Translation):
Getting the submissive with the commitment that he will eat his semen before ejaculating is not very difficult, it will depend on the time he has been without cum, the difficult thing is to make him fulfill his promise once he ejaculates with a full orgasm, his body is flooded with hormones that make relax and lose interest in sex.
You have to act fast especially at the beginning and not let him think and force him to comply before his passion has cooled. The idea is to get used to its taste and lose the disgust that it initially has, you know well the taste of your man’s semen and it is not so bad. Truth? Rather, it is a psychological barrier, with a little persuasion it will not be so difficult to break that barrier and convince him after all before you swallowed it yourself and he liked it well. The time has come for him to return and with interest those favors he received in the past.
Here is the challenge … the glove is thrown. Will you be able to get it?
So put it in four, tie it so that it cannot leave and milk it, with a good handjob to your liking, you see reminding it of its promise, for immediate stimulation if it does not answer affirmatively, caress it plays it with its back door in order make you beg a little … At the end when he comes with the bowl of your hand, collect his first volleys of semen and quickly put it in front of his mouth, do not expect him to finish cumming and his enthusiasm cooled, if he does not lick your hand as he promised with your another hand grabs his nose close it and lift his face up and when he opens his mouth to breathe put your hot cum in his mouth, threaten him with weeks of chastity and service if he spits it out …
Surely the blood will not reach the river, because if he is used to obeying you he will lick your hand like a kitten, if so, do not forget to pick up what was left in the sheets, and offer it lovingly and praise him for his obedience. Do not forget to recite your new rule: “If you run, you eat it.”
If you did beg as I tell you, it will surely not take long to request another session and comply with the new golden rule. Maybe right now .. Ha ha. FCM
I’ll bet this is really good. I just wish I could translate it so I could know for sure.
I have performed oral sex for my wife on several occasions after coming in her before she had orgasmed. She didn’t ask me to do this. But men, if we are honest with ourselves, we owe our partners the same pleasure that we just enjoyed. The first time I did this, my wife was really surprised; shocked may have more accurately described her reaction. But, when I explained why I was doing it, she just melted back into the pillow and smiled.
I think most men are reluctant to consume their own ejaculate, especially just after they orgasm. But, after getting over the mental barrier, I think that you’ll discover it isn’t that big a deal.
I will expose my own situation with regards to cum cleaning. I strongly fantasize about it, often. Yet, i’ve not been able to fulfill this. I’m really into it until the moment I cum, and right after I’ve ejaculated, the will washes away and I become disgusted by it. I wish my loved one would then be firm and excited enough to force me into it to pass this barrier, but so far, this has not happened as well. She’s been far too gentle to get me to do it. This is kinda saddening, but hormones and gone arousal seem to have a dramatic effect on me…
Do you see it as an act of loving service like I do?
No, I must be one of the very few women who doesn’t actually enjoy receiving oral. I guess that makes me weird, but I just don’t like the sensation and lord knows I’ve tried!
Does the phrase cum eating cause a gasp in your relationship or have you desensitized yourself to it?
Because we’ve never done it, this is a non question. But we have discussed it in the past in the context of me giving him oral and him cumming in my mouth. He said at the time that he would do it if it was something I’d like, and I know that he’s tasted his own.
Is this a hard limit in your relationship? Have you tested it?
It wouldn’t be I’m sure if we went down this route. Eating someone else’s I’m pretty sure would be!
Ladies, is cum eating sexy to you and if so what aspect makes it sexy?
I can’t say that it doesn’t anything for me, but then again the thought of two men with each other doesn’t either.
What would your fella do when you say those magic words “Ok now lick it up for me” in your sexiest of voices?
I think he would if that what I’d really want, but he doesn’t get to cum much these days so the opportunity to find out is limited.
I do not ask or require my husband to clean me of his cum after a PIV ejaculation. The thought does not turn me on or off. However, when I give him a blowjob, I LOVE to share it with him by immediately kissing him before I have swallowed any of it! That’s one sexy kiss in my book!
Me and my wife have tested it. I have done it a few times. I love the thought of eating my wife post orgasm.
i would love for my Wife to ask me to do this. As W/we explore adding Her being more dominant, i am hoping that She will want me to do this. It is tremendously practical too.
Oh yes, and it is something i want to introduce into my marriage.
Not (yet?) applicable
That depends on my Wife, as it is something i want.
N/A.
N/A. “Yes Goddess/Mistress”
In past relationships, i’ve loved eating my own cum as the Woman enjoyed watching me do it. It isn’t the taste, it is the act of devotion of consuming it for Her pleasure.
I’ll start with some background. My Wife, Karin, is a retired teacher, 35 years older than me, and is definitely in control of our relationship, even if it doesn’t fit the “traditional” FLR mold (if such a thing exists) but there are definitely elements of FLR and male submission involved.
One example is that Karin insists I call her “Miss Karin”, “Aunt Karin”, or “Ma’am” (nothing so formal as “Mistress” or “Goddess”) when we’re in bed, and I enjoy the acknowledging of Her authority this way. She also loves role-playing various scenarios, and sometimes gets Her friends in on the act.
On extremely rare occasions, she has told me to go “caveman” and just ravage her. This has happened maybe three times in the 11 years we’ve been together, all before our marriage. While I enjoyed it, I immediately felt guilty afterward, as though I had cheated Her out of the pleasure She should have received.
Back to the subject: I’ve been eating my own creampies since our first date. Sometimes She tells me to swallow it right away, sometimes She makes me hold the cum in my mouth for a minute or more so She can admire/photograph/whatever She wants to do before I swallow it.
My first date with my Wife started on the evening before I turned 18. She had asked me out, though it came after a few years of Her turning me down when I’d ask (read: beg) Her for a date, telling me I was too young. Still a virgin, I had promised Her that I would wait for Her until I was 16, and She had agreed. When I turned 16, She told me I had to wait until I was 18. So Her asking me out the night before turning 18 came as a surprise to me, as I had fully expected Her to tell me to wait until I was 21. I knew She was older than me, and I thought maybe by 18 to 20 years, which to my guess would have put Her between 36 and 38 at the time of our first date.
During the dinner part of our date, She told me Her rules for a relationship, mainly that She would be in charge of all sexual activity and I was to obey Her at all times in the bedroom. She also stated that our relationship would always be an open one, since She was attracted to both men and women. After dinner, we went back to Her place and waited for midnight to pass, making out and talking about various things She wanted me to do with/for Her. I agreed to all of this, because I really wanted to be with Her.
Once it was past midnight and I was officially of age, She wanted me to go down on Her and bring Her to orgasm. I had kept my promise to wait for Her, and at 18 I was still a virgin, therefore not skilled enough to accomplish the task without a lot of coaching from Her. But I gladly followed Her instructions, and managed to give Her an orgasm as a result, which made me at the time feel like I was a “king” of sorts.
Afterward, it was time for PIV sex, with Her on top of me, her favorite position for PIV. My feeling of being a “king” was quickly deflated, when I lasted about 40 seconds, and that’s being generous. She told me to eat my cream out of Her, and continue pleasuring Her with my tongue until She came twice more. My response was a simple “Yes, Ma’am” before going downtown. I still can picture Her beautifully manicured fingernails scooping my gooey load out of Her vagina, catching it in my mouth and swallowing it. She praised me for my obedience, and said that now She couldn’t get pregnant, and I went on to orally pleasure Her until She told me I could stop, having me continue well beyond the two additional orgasms She had originally mentioned. We slept in the same bed that night, with me holding Her in my arms, and I woke Her up by going down on Her the next morning.
The next morning, Karin admitted that She was actually 53, and couldn’t get pregnant, but She had wanted me to eat my own cum as test of my obedience and submission to Her. I said that I would have done it regardless of Her lack of potential for pregnancy, as I took my obedience to Her seriously. She tested me further by pegging me on our second date, which was just amazing. The feeling of Her in control, penetrating me as I looked deep into Her blue eyes was wonderful. While at first my attraction to Karin might have been driven by a young man’s lust, the feeling of submitting to Her had instantly made me fall in love with Her.
Our dates got progressively kinkier, including Karin making me pleasure friends of Hers (including “Miss D”, a woman in her late sixties) while She watched, cross-dressing to go out with some of Her friends for a “girls night” before getting pegged and dominated by both Her and Her friends, and even booking several “soft” sessions with a professional BBW dominatrix, while She watched or sometimes even assisted Mistress with dominating me.
Karin had opened up my side of the relationship first. She only had sex with some of the lady friends that She had introduced me to, long before I ever saw Her with another man. So by the time She did have sex with another man, I was ready to watch and enjoy the fact that She was receiving pleasure, without feeling jealousy. Now I love to watch Karin receive pleasure from someone else, regardless if it is with another man or with a woman. One thing I find amazing watching Her with another man, is that She retains her Dominant personality regardless of whatever male She is with.
Karin and I got married in Las Vegas in 2018, when I was 25 and She was 60. Just as a Dominant woman would, She pegged me for about an hour to consummate our marriage before I was allowed to make love to Her (with Her on top, naturally), after which I had to eat my creampie from Her, then continue orally pleasuring Her until I was ready to go again, continuing this pattern well into the night.
The day after our wedding day, Karin told me I would require Her permission to cum from now on. Consequences for my unauthorized ejaculations vary, but usually involve me either having to do additional household chores while naked or wearing a French maid costume (we usually split housework roughly 50-50) or physical punishment such as a serious spanking, usually with a paddle, hairbrush, etc. Pegging is never used as a punishment, because I enjoy it far too much (which makes it very difficult for me to not have an unauthorized ejaculation!)
Karin believes my physical punishment should be a painful reminder of what I did wrong, but it should never result in injury, so She doesn’t use whips, belts, or anything with a narrow impact point that could break skin. But She has no mercy with a paddle, not stopping the spanking until my entire ass is hot and cherry red. Karin doesn’t believe in caging – She would much rather actively punish me when I cum without permission rather than lock me up. And I have always been honest with Her about my rare self-pleasure transgressions, even knowing that She would punish me in some way.
Karin has never made me eat another man’s creampie out of her. She’s only let one of Her “outside” partners (a 21-year-old college senior, half of a younger couple, T and Miss C, that we were swinging with) ejaculate inside of Her, and that was only because the condom broke when T was having sex with Her. T had asked *me* if he should continue, and I told him the ladies were in charge, that he should ask Karin and his girlfriend instead. Karin told T that he could cum inside Her if he promised to eat her clean afterwards, and in the heat of the moment, T promised to do it. Once T came, he no longer wanted to clean Her up, but Karin made him keep his promise. It was admittedly a lot of fun to watch my Wife take Her young lover by his hair, make him go down there and eat his own cream from Her. His girlfriend Miss C enjoyed watching that too, and told T that she was going to make him eat her clean after sex from that point on.
Last month, an old friend of Karin’s, Miss J, was back in town for a week. Long before I had met Karin, She and Miss J were very close friends, friends that swapped boyfriends and husbands frequently. Karin invited Miss J to stay with us and told me that while Miss J was there, I was to be *her* husband for the week, and I was to give Miss J the same level of obedience, adoration and devotion that I usually give to Karin. Miss J made me take a marathon pegging from her while Karin lay next to us in bed, clean the entire house while wearing a French maid costume, and make passionate love to Her numerous times in different locations throughout the house all week. For the first time in over four years, I was allowed to cum freely, as Miss J didn’t restrict my orgasms, as long as I ate everything I produced.
Karin absolutely loved watching me service Miss J for the week that she stayed with us, and encouraged Miss J to move in permanently, so that I could be a husband to both of them. Miss J is out of town for now, but is seriously considering Karin’s offer to move in, and I’m torn about this. I find both ladies very attractive despite their vastly different appearances – Miss J is about 75 pounds heavier than Karin and dyes her long hair wild colors, while my Wife is very slender and usually wears Her natural gray hair in a short bob. Like my Wife, Miss J has a tremendous sexual appetite, and I worry that I could never thoroughly satisfy either of the two ladies if I had to be a husband to both of them.
Even at 64, Karin can pass for mid-to-late forties, and younger men are always noticing Her when we are out. Sometimes She actively seeks out other men, while I’m content to let Her bring other women, mostly Her friends or acquaintances, into and out of our relationship.
In the past, Karin has created profiles for me to meet other women, as long as the women agreed to make videos of our hookups for Her to watch. She loves to watch me be pegged and/or dominated by another woman.
Karin doesn’t expect me to engage in sex with any of the men She plays with, but says She is OK if it were to ever happen. (Miss C had actually wanted me to take T’s ass-virginity myself, but Karin thankfully convinced Miss C that a good pegging from an older woman would be a better way to go instead.)
That’s a lot more than I expected to write! In my opinion, cleanup is a loving service I provide for Her. After all, when She permits me to cum, I’m the one making the mess in or on Her. It’s only fair that I clean up after myself! I don’t mind the taste of my own cream alone. I would drink an entire glassful of it, if Karin wanted me to. But I prefer to taste both of us together.
My cleanup is a routine part of our relationship. I promised to obey Her. She told me to eat my cum out of Her. I obeyed, with a “Yes, Ma’am.” Simple. It turns Her on, but I don’t know if it’s the actual eating of my own cum, or the obedience and submission that She finds to be sexy. I suppose it is a bit of both.
I’m so fortunate that I met lovely Karin! She has literally taught me to be the exact type of lover She wants me to be, and that is an obedient, submissive, sharing lover who cleans up after himself.
Sex is dirty the dirtier the better for me. so the idea of worrying about any bodily fluid is such an after thought I can’t relate to the hang up. For anyone that can’t keep there motivation up after they cum let someone else fill your wife up problem solved dig right in and let the fun of clean up begin
I never really went through a desensitizing period with it. I would have objected if someone asked me to eat my own cum but no one did before I was in my 1st LTR. I took pride in my obsessive drive to serve her with hours long sex (in our 20’s) where after I came in her, I’d quickly switch position and eat and worship her pussy, usually for 10 to 20 minutes until I was hard again, although I was perfectly happy to stay going down on her until we both passed out after dawn. I didn’t even think about my cum being offensive in that situation, where it was mixed with her fluids and my burning passion would have me eat anything anywhere to please her and satiate our desire for each other, that was the 1st 3 months or so, but as we moved around over the next 7 years I never objected to eating my cum from her, and on occasion ate her other lovers cum form her also.
Later I had some bi experiences and swallowed men’s cum, as a sub I liked the humiliation of sucking and serving so eating or taking facials were both things I did as part of that submission, I did prefer facials just so I could have a picture to save as an additional humiliation, but I was way past objecting to eating cum.
I’m starting a long BDSM training program, as an “Obedient Love” trainee and will be eating all my ejaculations from now on. Although they may end soon for a 4 month orgasm denial challenge, I’ve done 2 months on my own, looking forward to testing my discipline and self-control.
Have you ever had Kev do denial longer than a week?
Can’t comment on the creampie because my wife never lets me cum in her any more, “Yeah, that’s not happening” but sometimes when she gives me a hand job she will scoop up my semen from my chest with a spoon or make me lick it off her hand and feed it to me. It’s not a regular thing but if she feels like it she does. I love it and find it arousing and wish she would do it more. “What comes out goes back in, if you want to cum then you will eat it.” I think, to me, it is hot because of the taboo of me eating cum coupled with her telling me to do it. It is a sign of my obedience and submission to her.
Like most want to be(s) I never had any hope my wife would engage in any of the kinky things I am attracted to and want her to do.
She once volunteered that she wished she could have sex with others so she would know how other penises felt like in her. However, she got really upset when I told her she could any time she wanted.
She is kind of intrigued by chastity but has not shown any interest in playing.
I have always loved oral sex with my wife which she never has never understood. “I like it” she has told me, “But I don’t understand what’s in it for you.”
I have never talked to her about eating her out after I had cum in her.So I was really shocked when after having sex she took my head in her hands and urged me downward. I hesitated. She pushed harder.
I gave in and let her guide me down past her breasts, past her stomach until she centered me between her legs. She pushed. I resisted. She pushed again. I resisted again. Another push and I relented and let my lips kiss her labia. Impatiently, she pushed me even harder. I finally gave in fully. I opened my mouth and began mouthing and sucking at her vulva and vagina. My tongue licked eagerly inside of her cleft.
I reminded myself that I had wanted this for along time and that I had wanted my wife to try it, so I forced myself to give in fully. I now eager attacked her sex, licking and sucking and playing with all of her intimate bits.
She responded intensely. Arching her back, bucking, pushing my head and mouth harder into her. Ordering me to suck and lick harder and harder. Of course, this led to her having body shaking orgasms. Three in fact.
She finally pushed me away and went to the restroom.
We never talked about it. She doesn’t want to and I know better than to try to initiate it.
So now it is part of what we do. When she wants it, she will hold my head and push. I willingly take my place and give her what she wants. It’s even better when she straddles my head and lowers herself onto my face. Either way, I never resist anymore and in fact look forward to it.
Maybe one day she will wake up and want to do some other things. She knows I am willing.
I love my wife.
I never was squeamish about cleaning up but did not dare to say or ask it dat I wanted to try it. Also my girlfriend thought that it was a bridge to far that I would clean her up after her lover came in her and did not dare as myself to speak about it. However one day I dared to do the first move in that direction: having a french kiss with her directly after she gave me blowjob. I notice that she was surprised. After some time we had the next step that she let my semen go from her mouth in mine after she gave me a blowjob. Then one day she pushed my head between her legs shortly I came in her. The rest is history. Since then It is almost standard that I clean her up after she made love with her lover. I have been though squeamish when she came home and only a little or no semen came out of her (what is most of the time like this). Already sometimes she used a diaphragm to keep all the semen of her lover in her as an extra present for me.
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My wife has me orally clean up after sex. Sometimes she makes it incredibly sexy, most of the time it’s purely for ease and convenience with no longer having to deal with the mess herself. She just lies back and relaxes while she’s cleaned
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