Images of black men as a much larger and more menacing cuckold threat to the poor innocent white women are pervasive in porn and imagery around the cuckold fetish. For the longest time I said that I didn't like the word cuckold and everything that it represents but I think my biggest issue is the racist undertones and implications in the cuckold fetish. This isn't because I don't like seeing nude black men. I find black men very attractive and I dated a black man for a while. No issue there, nope not at all. The problem I have is racism in porn. I don't even want to watch interracial porn because I find myself sitting on edge for the inevitable racist comment that will take me completely out of the mood. Racism is disgusting and sadly, I think the appeal has something to do with a black man being seen as a threat which I loathe. Humiliation in the bedroom walks a fine line between erotic teasing and emotional pain. My personal opinion is that the interracial cuckold "black bull" stereotype is abhorrent.
The stereotype is that black men are better endowed, have better stamina, more sexual prowess and are more dangerous. In fact I had a user on this site reluctantly admit that she liked black men because it fueled her rape fantasy. Newsflash, all ethnicities have rapists and rich entitled white frat boys are probably the most-rapiest of them all. Did I just try and fight racism with racism, I guess I did.
My personal opinion is that black men being seen as some sort of sexual predator is harmful and perpetuates society's stereotypes. If you find yourself aroused by the thought of a black bull, ask yourself what specifically arouses you about this genre of porn. Why is racism allowed to thrive in porn when it is shunned in nearly every other aspect of our society.
The religious groups who fight porn cite their reasons for fighting pornography because it is demeaning to women. I personally don't find porn demeaning in fact there are many porn genres where I see porn to be empowering. I have several friends that supplement their income with a healthy OnlyFans side hustle and that works well for them. So now you know what I think, what do you think? Is a black man somehow more risky in a cuckold situation than an equally endowed white man?
Sorry for the rant today, I was talking to someone about it and decided that I would harness my energy for the blog. I shouldn't need to say it but if you have openly racist or hateful things to say in the comments, this isn't the place. I'll hide anything inappropriate. Please love each other.…
Emma brings her own experiences to light, creating a space for open conversations on relationships, kinks, personal growth, and the psychology of sexuality. With insights into everything from chastity to emotional fulfillment, she’s here to guide readers on a journey of evolving love and intimacy.
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