Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!

We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide that it might be high time to evolve yourself a bit. A perfect relationship requires that both of you strive to be your best selves, constantly. Is it faux pas for a blog that encourages female led relationships to make a blog about supporting your partner? Part of being a good leader is being self aware about your situation and doing things for the good of your relationship. Female leadership is about responsibility, sacrifice and compassion.

Most of us talk, we talk about our feelings, we talk through our problems and that's ok. Your guy may not be as communicative about his emotions and that's ok too. His journey of evolution is learning to listen and not solve everything that you communicate to him. Part of your evolution is to keep him engaged with you and your conversations. Here are a few tips. Ask open ended questions so he doesn't feel like you are talking for the sake of talking. When talking over text, use his name often and try and leave conversations with something you will make him feel the warm fuzzies. Say something that you know will make him feel good about himself or is sexually suggestive. This is a wonderful habit to be in and it makes him eagerly look forward to your communication. A great way to do this is to be playful. For example, I told Kev that he forgot to pick up some groceries that I asked him to pick up. The text went something like this.

Many women try and communicate their affection in the same way that the would want to be communicated and guess what, it doesn't work well. Most men want to have their ass smacked and they want to be objectified. Yep he typically wants everything that typically turns me off as gross male behavior. What is wrong for me is right for him and that is just fine! You may also notice that I called Kev "pretty" in the text above. I call him pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, handsome, cute and other words like that. We gender so many of our compliments and it is bullshit. Men can be pretty and men can be cute.

Men want a woman that knows exactly what and whom she wants. Do you want him showered and in your bed by the time you get home from work? Tell him. Do you want him on his knees with an eager tongue? I make it a priority to let Kev know that he is wanted and needed as an object of my sexual desire.

This is especially important to add to the mix with orgasm denial. Denying his orgasm but reminding him how much you want him to cum is a wonderful way to compound the euphoria of dopamine associated with orgasm denial and chastity. Be pushy and aggressive when you know what you want. My desire levels have been hot and cold lately due to some health issues but last night the ovens of desire were burning especially hot. I told him in no uncertain terms that his but looked very nice in his jeans and I intended to fuck his ass tonight. I reminded him no less than three times while we were out running errands and the smile and boost in his demeanor was evident. …