Hey there, lovelies! Today I’m diving into a topic that's near and dear to my heart: respect and submission in cuckold relationships. Now, not all cuckold couples follow this path, but in our dynamic, it’s something we've grown into and an absolute must. Let me take you through how respect and submission to the bull can enhance your experience and make it outstanding for everyone.
In our relationship, which has undoubtedly made a significant shift into a cuckold relationship over the last year, my husband Kev and I have found that showing respect and submission to the bull is crucial. It sets the right tone and atmosphere, ensuring that everyone feels valued and appreciated. For us, it’s not just about the physical act but about creating a harmonious and respectful dynamic.
When Kev shows gratitude and respect to the bull, it elevates the bull's position in the experience. It’s about acknowledging the bull’s role in giving me pleasure and enhancing our relationship. This respect extends from the initial contact to every interaction, creating a positive and fulfilling experience. It also adds to the fantasy, of which the bull is coming in and saving the day by giving me pleasure that Kev is unable to.
Finding the right bull is the first step (duh), and it’s Kev’s responsibility to start the search. He scours websites (primarily Reddit and Feeld) but these may vary greatly depending on your area. Tasking Kev with finding someone that I find appealing takes the hardest part out of my hands and puts it into my loving husband's hands. Looking for someone who fits our criteria is a huge act of service and another way that he can show his acceptance and approval of this lifestyle. This process isn't just about finding someone attractive; it’s about finding someone who understands and respects our dynamic.
Kev takes the time to vet potential bulls, engaging in conversations and getting a sense of their personality and intentions. He looks for someone who will respect our boundaries and contribute positively to our relationship. This vetting process is where Kev first shows his submission and gratitude, thanking the bull for considering us and being part of our journey.
Once we find a potential bull, Kev shares photos and details with me. If I approve, we arrange to meet for a drink. This initial meeting is crucial—it’s where we get a feel for the bull’s energy and how well he meshes with us. There is never any expectation of the coffee or beer meetup leading to more and I don't think we've ever let it go further.…
Hello,
Great post.
So, these are other lovers appart of the fix one who lives with you two?
Thank you.
Well, I love the new dynamic.
Very arousing.
Thank you.
Very well written. Once the husband or B/F has accepted his subordinate role to the bull, he’ll also accept being locked in a chastity cage while the woman happily fulfills her sexual needs with another man. Once this is the established situation, I would go so far to suggest he must obtain permission from both wife and bull before he may be unlocked for an orgasm(no matter how much sexual frustration he feels) This will add an extra level of subordination, and support the idea that the wishes of his wife and her bull take priority over his.
P.S. A nice way to end a cuckolding date is to get into bed with your locked up guy at night and spoon. Cuddle up closely behind him. Make sure he can feel your boobs on his back, gently grind your pussy on his tailbone, reach around and gently stroke his nipples. You’ll have some nice orgasms to end he day, while he remains very hard for a woman, but securely locked – Just as he should be! .:)
The way you describe it, cuckolding is the energy that goes along with the act and not the act of having sex in itself.
lbp6855 –That’s one way of looking at it I suppose. I prefer to think of it as a bit of both..
This post probably describes the heart of what it is to be a cuckold. The act of having sex with another man with your partners approval alone sounds like casual dating of some kind. If there is no deeper internal response from the man, it probably isn’t cuckolding. There needs to be some element of submission to the bull, either voluntarily of involuntarily. There probably are many people who by default are cuckolds. Men who have partners that were having an affair historically were called cuckolds because other people who lived in the town/village knew about what was going on even though he didn’t. It wasn’t an open relationship because of the humiliation and power dynamic behind it. The wife involuntarily made the husband submissive to the bull by having sex with another while everybody knew about it. The public humiliation of it made him submissive to the bull in the eyes of everybody around them. At least that is what I read about cuckolding from my research. Even if you listen to bulls talk about cuckolding, it is just as much about being dominant over the man as it is giving pleasure to the woman.
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