There’s something undeniably exciting about the unknown, isn’t there? Letting Kev (that’s my husband, for those who are new here) take the reins and choose a partner for me, whether it’s for a fling, a more steady boyfriend-type situation, or even just a friend with benefits, has added a whole new layer to our relationship. And the best part? It’s a trust-building exercise wrapped in a big, sexy bow. I know, the idea might sound like a leap of faith, but trust me, this can be an incredible way to deepen your connection, explore new dynamics, and, let's be honest, have a lot of fun along the way.
First off, let’s talk about the sheer thrill of it. When Kev is in charge of selecting a partner for me, it takes the pressure off me, and I get to experience the relationship from a slightly different perspective. I mean, who doesn’t like a bit of mystery now and then? Plus, knowing that he’s the one orchestrating everything adds a delicious layer of anticipation. It’s like unwrapping a present, except the gift is a tall, dark, and handsome stranger who’s been handpicked just for you.
Remember that your husband is not selecting someone that you will sleep with. Everything starts with a date and with a very safe "getting to know you" session where everyone checks the vibe and gets a feel for compatibility. Despite his best efforts, he may have made a bad choice and that is perfectly fine. Just because you aren't compatible with someone, it doesn't mean there is a failure on anyone's part. Together, you learn more about the traits that work and those that don't work.
Now, if we’re talking about a bull—someone who’s going to bring that extra oomph into your life—there are a few things to consider. For me, and I’m guessing for many of you, a bull needs to have a certain presence. He’s confident, assertive, and, let’s be real, he’s packing both in terms of personality and, other physical attributes.
Kev knows my preferences, of course. We’ve discussed it in detail, so when he’s on the hunt for a bull, he’s looking for someone who’s going to take charge, someone who’s going to make me feel like the center of attention. The bull should be comfortable in his own skin, aware of the dynamic, and, most importantly, respectful of our relationship.
But here’s the kicker: the real magic happens when Kev explains the cuckold dynamic to the bull. It’s a humbling experience for him, and knowing that he’s gone through that process just to ensure my pleasure is a huge turn-on. There’s something deeply intimate about the act of service involved in him selecting the man who’s going to be pleasuring me. It’s a beautiful, complex dance of emotions—humiliation, excitement, anticipation—all rolled into one.…
