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Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?
It is true that men report a greater desire or interest in sexual fetishes than women do. Men also report engaging in these types of behaviors more frequently as...
Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]
In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I've thought about the body shaming and negative body image...
What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?
I've been trying to become more active on my twitter and I've come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some...
Male Chastity: Can Sexual Frustration Make You Die Sooner?
Well that is a spooky topic for a blog, right? I was trolling for sex articles on science's website because I am a pervy nerd and came across this...
Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective
We all know that negative reinforcement doesn't work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can...
Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon
In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can...
Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule
I've always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does....
Mother’s Day 2021: Your mom is awesome!
My mother was incredibly important to me, she formed who I am today and she helped shape a world view that not only told me that I am "enough"...
New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations
The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step...
Mare: Artist Profile
Mare or perhaps more accurately MᗩRƐ or MAR3 is an 23yr old male artist from Denmark that draws some incredibly sexy kink illustrations. From his patreon page, he says...
Pegging: Surrender Your Body to Her
I previously wrote about pegging positions and that continues to be one of the most popular blogs on the site. After writing that, I realized that positions actually very...
Pegging: It’s All In the Technique
Technique can be difficult for those of us without an appendage dangling between our legs. We weren't born with a penis so we have to learn technique as we...
Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?
The ratio of men and women in the world is remarkably similar with males being only slightly more common than females. In some countries the ratio is slightly higher...
Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”
Male orgasm denial has many benefits that we've covered on this blog, the male and female orgasms are very different. The female orgasm is designed to promote closeness and...
Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner
Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and in his day to day....
Husbands: You are not enough
As I learn more about my sexuality and about how both males and females are wired, I have to question our society's husband and wife normative. I understand that...
Dominant Female: Mothering your partner?
In some cases, men who desire a FLR had a mother who was quite stern. In seeking a dominant female such as yourself, they are looking to replace the...
Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend
One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part of your relationship dynamic. We've...
Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?
There is little question that orgasm denial is manipulation of something by someone. The real question is whether you are manipulating something (the body) or someone (the husband). Specifically,...
Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate
There is a relationship between all emotions but compersion and jealousy have one of the most unique. Jealousy is a beast of an emotion since jealousy in the context...
Why are so many men afraid of doing anything sexual around other men?
My boyfriend Kev and I invited our mutual friend Andrew to stay with us for what we expected to be a few months. A few months turned in to...
Chastity Fetish: My Husband Wants Me to Lock Him Up
I don't know your husband but my guess is that he is willing to do nearly anything to make you feel loved and supported. I am also guessing that...
Taking Charge: How it Makes Him Feel
Strong women are typically honest, independent, confident and they aren't afraid to be themselves. I haven't always felt the level of confidence that I do now. Confidence was especially...
Casual Sex While In a Relationship
I've learned many things over the last year but one of the most interesting is the tie between an emotional and a physical relationship. Why is casual sex while...
Penis Size: I Like Them Small
To me, a large penis fosters a purely physical connection while a small penis supports a level of closeness and intimacy. A large penis gives me anxiety and a...