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LoopLok: What Does a Lock on a Beltloop Mean?

Have you see people walking around town with locks on their beltloop? Have you wondered just what in tarnation those are about? Look no further, we will unfold the...

Why Would I Want to Feminize My Husband?

I've always been opposed to feminization. I am female; a strong and empowered female who knows what she wants. My husband is male; a strong and subservient male that...

Audio Porn: Delight Yourself With Sounds and Words

A hot delivery boy shows up with a pizza, but the poor woman doesn’t have enough cash to pay for it. The pizza is cast aside, and the terms...

Post-Nut Humiliation: The Perfect Time to Play with Emotions

Post nut clarity is time when sexual arousal decreases after an orgasm. That clear feeling after he lets loose of his juice and he is in a temporary psychological...

Ten Ways to Practice Female Led Relationships Outside of the Bedroom

On this glorious site we go over female led relationships (FLR) and the focus is in the bedroom but what about the other 95% of the time when we...

Identify The Motivations behind your Non-Monogamy

Non-monogamy, also known as consensual non-monogamy or ethical non-monogamy, refers to the practice of having multiple simultaneous sexual or romantic relationships with the knowledge and consent of all involved...

SDH: The Joys of Sex Doll & Fleshlight Humiliation

Using a sex doll in the bedroom is typically considered a thing to do in the absence of a partner but what about including a sex doll with your...

Humiliation: SPH as a Relationship Dynamic

Humiliation is deeply arousing for men. I'll be honest, I don't really get it. If he told me that his ex had bigger tits than me (she did), I'd...

Ask Emma: Can Cuckolding Cause Erectile Dysfunction?

Hi Emma, My husband and I are new to cuckolding and we truly find enjoyment in the fantasy but I think it may cause some anxiety in his mind...

QIUI Key Pod Giveaway – Win a Key Pod!

A few years ago I gave away a Cell Mate remote chastity device and the amazing folks at lockthecock.com have graciously offered to sponsor another giveaway for not just...

My Wife Dates: The Case for the Halfway Open Marriage

Interpersonal relationships are complex and many of us will agree that marriage is an outdated construct. That doesn't have to mean that partnering with another individual with the intention...

Male Chastity Day 2023

Male chastity. A topic I absolutely adore. Why do I love male chastity so much? Let me count the ways! The male orgasm is wonderful and I love experiencing this...

Ask Emma – Should I let a man other than my husband get me pregnant?

Emma, Thank you so much for running this website. It gives us some great information on this lifestyle. Learning about this lifestyle is not always easy since there is...

What is a cuck good for anyway?

Your dick is not big enough to fully satisfy me sexually. I attract younger and more fit men, why would I settle for one man? How do those words...

Ask Emma: Reclaiming after my boyfriend visits.

I (F38) am married to my husband (M40) and have a boyfriend (M33) who comes over and visits a few times a month. He (boyfriend) is in an open...

The Sex & Psychology Podcast: Dr. Justin Lehmiller

I've got a few blogs that I am in the middle of writing but I've been meaning to post about the Sex and Psychology Podcast for some time. This...

Only Emotional Safety Allows True Sexual Freedom

My wheels are turning, three blogs in three consecutive days? Who am I? I think my mind is just incredibly fueled by the wonderful comments and dialog that my...

Romantic Loyalty & Cuckolding: Can They Coexist?

Yesterday I posted a blog entitled Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective and shortly after, I received some private messages from readers. Some were supportive while others were...

Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective

This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just fine as a standalone blog,...

Ask Emma: How can I stop feeling guilty about taking control?

Emma, First off, thank you for maintaining such a great website. Your articles have been pivotal in feeling more comfortable about my wife and I's desires. I'm reaching out...

Male Chastity: The lock and key are important symbols of our relationship. ?

Some couples have a song, perhaps the song that they danced to at their wedding. Some couples have a place such as their honeymoon location or another place that...

Male Chastity: Want me to unlock you? Convince me!

This is one that works especially well for the husbands that aren't great about opening up about their fantasies and their feelings. It works by getting them out of...

Orgasm Denial: A step by step guide to add structure to his ejaculations.

In my previous blog, we discussed orgasms and how controlling male orgasms can be integral to the satisfaction potential of your relationship. I'll do my best to make this...

Orgasm Denial: Controlling access to what he believes he is entitled to.

Let's first outline what denial is and why men find it exciting. Denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences or excitement. Pretty simple right? Denial is not...

Ask Emma: Vacation Cuckold Experience That I Don’t Know How To Feel About

Hi Emma, Thank you so much for your articles, I can relate to so much of what you write. My name is Tanya (not my real name) I am...

What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM

For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....

Punishment & Correction

2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...

Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...

Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend

One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...

Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!

We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...

Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....

The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...

Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity

Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...

FLR101 – Read this first

I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider.  Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...

Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective

This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...