I am not a dominatrix. I am not a mistress. I don't believe in female supremacy. I don't think women should rule the world. I don't even think that...

This site has been around in one form or another for five years. Five years. That is an eternity in internet years but not really that long in terms...

It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it...

Recent convert here so I feel like I am uniquely positioned to talk about this topic. If you read my previous blogs, you will know that I've been mostly...

Kev and I are newlyweds, we got hitched just two short months ago. While he and I are in our honeymoon period on paper, we've been together for years....

I was thinking in the shower as I often do and I thought to myself; self, many of these fetishes that Kev and I enjoy dance around the bigger...

We've started his new 6 week schedule, and he's past the two week mark.  I wasn't really expecting much at this stage.  Maybe it's the fact that his E-day...

Sorry for delay in my posting but some things came up in the family which distracted me (nothing too serious fortunately). Well I guess everyones big question is – did...

Why are sexual needs so difficult for us to talk about? If you are hungry, you talk about how to satiate your hunger. If you are bored, you talk...

We are having fun with this so far, as it has greatly enhanced our sex life even with just this short run so far. The desired goal is to...

Hi, Its just me Sarah with an update – sorry this will be a bit long but I think I need to get this all out … I rolled...

No. I looked through numerous studies and I could not find a single one that linked penis size to IQ with anything statistically meaningful. There was lots of racist...

Sarah is a reader that responded in the comments section of my blog.  I didn't want her story to get buried in the comments section so I'm breaking her...

All men are not alike just as all women are not alike. Many women find a dominant male attractive, let's unpack the reasons. We are all wired to appreciate...

"Writing at my wife's request who recently found your blog. She's so pleased by the benefits of this that she wonders why allow any ejaculation, ever? Two weeks in...

It's come to my attention that it may not be advisable to insert Jade Eggs inside the vagina.  It's been my understanding that these eggs have been used by...

Does size matter to some? Absolutely! As I've explored on my blog, a small penis is wonderful for emotional lovemaking but a larger penis is just what the doctor...

It's important in my opinion that when you have your man retaining and he is preserving his Jing and building Chi that I prepare myself to receive that special...

I've received a few questions from men that are really intrigued by this system, but are hesitant or afraid of what their wife might think or how they might...

Our intercourse sessions are very passionate.  I think if most women could witness them, they might find it unbelievable.  But this is the way a man responds to a...

More than a few times people have asked me for suggestions in my comment sections on aversive stimuli that could be used for unauthorized ejaculation.  I decided to put...

I received this question from a reader recently: Great blog full of practical information, thank you!Given your medical/science background, do you have any health concerns regarding long-term retention? My wife's...

I've been thinking of my evolution as a woman, and I kept coming back to the two female archetypes of Lilith and Eve.  I've come to the conclusion that...

We had a week recently where we were very much involved in other things other than our sex life.  My husband was preoccupied with things of a technical nature. ...

We recently finished a period where I extended his ejaculation schedule to 14 days.  During that time I applied intense pre-climax stimulation to him during those 14 days.  There...