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Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful
The medical term for painful intercourse is dyspareunia (dis-puh-ROO-nee-uh), defined as persistent or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after intercourse. There can be many causes...
Pegging Goes Mainstream
As anal sex becomes more universally accepted and mainstream, pegging does too. Let's take a look at the appearances that pegging has made on the big screen.
I think...
Caitlin V: Sex Coach
One of our readers sent me information about a sex coach named Caitlin V. She is animated, fun, sex positive, easy to understand and her videos are excellent!
I've...
Pegging Frequency
We discuss pegging quite frequently on this site and it seems that most of you are strong advocates of the practice in your relationship. Some couples tried pegging a...
Locktober: Keys Are Sexy
Remember ladies, it is almost Locktober. Time to lock your boy up!
-Me
How does something as simple as a key become sexy? We use various keys to get into our...
Sacrifices in Female Led Partnerships
So he put his willy in a little metal thing for a few days. Big deal. At the beginning of our journey, I didn't really understand how big of...
What Does Chastity Have To Do With Gender?
Here's an email exchange with a reader over the last couple days:
Reader- We have a somewhat female led relationship and my husband wears a chastity cage regularly, we do...
Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?
In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun,...
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage...
Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their...
Gender Balance
Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled "Real Men Don't Have Penises" we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders...
Relationships: A Stay at Home Dad’s Tale
Vikter is a reader and frequent forum contributor that has incorporated some of the principles that I promote in the blog such as male orgasm control and pegging. Additionally,...
Penis Size
A blog about sexuality and I don't think I've ever done a blog about penis size. I should be ashamed of myself. Oh well, time to make amends.
Desirability
I like...
Communication: The Number System
When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his...
Having Fun With It: Only Two Players
This is an ongoing story about my life with Kevin, our neighbor Andrew and the new and interesting dynamic that is coming from our new relationship. You can read...
Pegging Proficiently
The physical side of pegging is pretty simple, I spelled it out in this blog about pegging for beginners. Girl puts on strap-on harness, boy bends over, girl puts...
Real Women Don’t Have Penises
This may seem like very conventional logic but what happens when they do? If she has a penis, is she really a he? Is he really a she? I...
Conditioned Masturbation
I received an email from a reader who asked about their husband's "masturbation" problem. An excerpt of her email is below:
He masturbates daily while I am at work, I...
Sexuality: Copulins or “Vagina Magic”
What the heck are copulins? I came across them when doing some research about pheromones. For some reason, the word copulins makes the think of little green men or...
Sexuality & Gender Differences: Is It Fair?
On this website I spend quite a bit of time discussing differences between women and men. Along the way, some have accused me of being a female supremacist. Do...
Relationships: Boyfriends for Married Women
This article was written by a guest contributor named MagicalMolly after seeing my ping pong blog. She said that she had a story to tell me that might help...
Relationships: Promiscuity & Monogamy
I've just been thinking and researching some things about human sexuality and felt the need to put some thoughts down. Both men and women are wired to be monogamous...
Orgasm Denial: What is a Ruined Orgasm?
I'd first like to thank Ruined-Julie for contributing this post. Full disclosure, Kevin and I tried the ruined orgasm and it didn't work well for us. Julie's writing certainly...
Tantra – Touch and Sex
In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when...