Hello! 'Vanilla' Wife-led husband here 🙂
Glad to be here! i'm the lucky husband of my Queen, married 15+ years, in permanent abstinence/chastity through honor system (so far this year, but previous year+ spells).
We're pretty vanilla, but i'm sub in nature; Queen is very traditional, but among us She has always been the Queen/leader. We always were good friends, married and things worked pretty well but then started falling as i wasn't taking leadership and we were playing traditional roles. We stayed together distantly until She lead us to face the situation. Since then we've been closer, and the last couple of years i've worked remotely and our connection has grown a lot. We have a Queen/knight relationship.
Last year we both felt the call to hold on sex. i've fantasized about chastity but never expected to come in this shape. It's been a fantastic year, a HUGE connection has developed, She is much more comfortable leading most aspects of our lives and i've allowed to submit in deeper ways. As many here have probably experienced, i'm totaly crazy about Her and our days are full of connection, romantic interactions and a more balanced approach to life, parenthood and housework.
Looking forward to learn from others!