This is getting really good

I’ve not gone longer than 2-3 weeks since about age 16. Of course, I’m not caged. Perhaps at some point I can convince wifey to give it a try…

Can you give a little more background on how this came about? Is she truly enthusiastic about it? And it’s been about a week… how is it going so far?

Yes, it seems to run slow for me either on my phone or PC. Sometimes pages take a lot of refreshing.

How did you get started? Whose idea was it? Quite an adventurous thing after 20 years of marriage, I love it!

This is very similar to my wife and me. I applaud you for your courage. Well done. I have the same fears (and desires), but we have not had a discussi...

Thanks for sharing, this was quite eye opening. So much of everything in the west seems so damn rushed. It is such a good idea to slow things down and...

So is there the same orgasm “hangover” after an orgasm with a vasectomy?

Great job, Spinpole! Keep going, treat her as your queen and keep communicating. Excited to hear how things progress.

I think what you are describing, @dplaything, is accurate for me, as well. It gets grey for me when I have a moderate ruined orgasm in that I don't fe...

@evolvingyourman_ivcr4j Well, so far I haven't gotten very far. I keep telling myself I'm playing the "long game", but it feels like we're going nowhe...

Oh hell no, you shouldn't feel guilty! He loves it doesn't he? Two consenting adults, I see no reason for any feelings of guilt. Orgasm control is som...

I'm jealous. Are you locked in a cage or working from the honor system?

This is definitely tricky, because you have to introduce it in a way that doesn't leave her shocked when she searches the internet. If she simply sear...

I keep coming back here day after day and learn something new each time. I think you have enough material for a book, Emma. Thanks for all the work yo...