The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to be a better partner. Being the best husband is ultimately about waking up every morning and making a conscious decision to be a wonderful partner. The simple and continual desire to be better will almost guarantee your success. If you've been around the site a while, you know that most of my blogs are written to a woman who is trying to help her husband. This blog is different than most and is for husbands who want to be a better partner. Let's start by asking why. What about her makes you strive to do better; to be better? So let's get on to your question.
The fact that you are even trying shows that you have the desire to be a good husband. You have the desire to be a better partner. Let's talk about what most men want from a marriage. A best friend, an emotional safe space, respect, support, encouragement, vulnerability and physical intimacy. Guess what fellas, we want the exact same things! We mix the order up a bit and there is an interesting outlier in the list; respect. Not the Aretha Franklin song but feelings that your wife respects you. You earn her respect when you consistently consider and value her feelings. When you make time for her, introduce her to others, never hide things from her and you take care of yourself physically. The needs of men and women aren't that different really. There are many ways that we differ but
Where do we differ?
Men are problem solvers by nature and women often just want to be heard. Helping us solve our problems can actually seem unsupportive.
Courtship is that thing you did when you were getting to know her. You took her out to dinner, you held the door for her. She was the object of your affection and the center of your attention. During that time you would actively try to impress her with your jokes, conversational banter and skills.
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In today’s information age women (primarily through education) are slowly becoming the dominant force in business, law and government. As news of the benefits of locked male chastity cages are spreading among these ladies, their hesitancy to lock their men up is fading; because of this, there will be many more males locked in chastity cages in the future, kept sexually teased and denied until their dominant ladies decide otherwise.
Not only just sexual supply but reducing general availability would help as well. Try to encourage her to have her own life that doesn’t revolve around you and doesn’t encourage her to always text you or tell you where she is and what she is doing. Distance and variety will help make interactions with her more exciting and meaningful as opposed to dull, burnt out interactions.
Been married for 20 years, and got divorced a few years ago. I believe if i had known about PE would tried semen retention to keep the spice.
I am now in a new monogamic relationship now, (but we talk about open it sometime) because it ignites us both.
I have learned to orgasm without ejaculation and as far as I understand, it works very similar to chastitty / squeduled orgasms for you partner.
I am in trial period, but going great so far.
I feel constant impulse to give her as much orgasms as she wants.
Thanks for sharing!
2 years ago
Hi Emma,
I believe this could really help my relationship. How do I get my partner to embrace all this? It seems a long way from where we currently are.
So well written, it is wonderful to hear other women embracing how diverse and deep a relationship can be . when we simply change the construct of sex to embody an ongoing experience of both mind and body .
Thank you so mutch for this great article! Im a married Man who just short time ago became the submissive husband to my long time Wife.
It has been a eye opening mutal desistion and experience when she desided to take controll over her life and marrige. Before we often argueing but now we almost never arguing any more. I still say my opinion but we bouth know that she has the final saying.
It has been times I had som regrets and felt it humiliating. Because its not every day it feels nice to be put in my place by her firm hand and voice. Spesaly when friends and famely is among us.
But our marrige, sexlife and every day life has improved tremendessly! Even the times when I felt hurt and realy wanted somthing she put her fot down to I later slways get more arused and enda up on my knee on her lap thanking her for her great leadership and guidence.
I love to be a bether submissive husband to her and learn by reading on this site! So again thanx! 🙏❤
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Thank you Emma for wise words, this is why i cant stop reading your blog.
You dont make it sound scary and hard, rather the opposite, easy and sweet.
You talk about love, respect and rising toghter which i love.
In today’s information age women (primarily through education) are slowly becoming the dominant force in business, law and government. As news of the benefits of locked male chastity cages are spreading among these ladies, their hesitancy to lock their men up is fading; because of this, there will be many more males locked in chastity cages in the future, kept sexually teased and denied until their dominant ladies decide otherwise.
Not only just sexual supply but reducing general availability would help as well. Try to encourage her to have her own life that doesn’t revolve around you and doesn’t encourage her to always text you or tell you where she is and what she is doing. Distance and variety will help make interactions with her more exciting and meaningful as opposed to dull, burnt out interactions.
I am a male on early 40 from Argentina.
Been married for 20 years, and got divorced a few years ago. I believe if i had known about PE would tried semen retention to keep the spice.
I am now in a new monogamic relationship now, (but we talk about open it sometime) because it ignites us both.
I have learned to orgasm without ejaculation and as far as I understand, it works very similar to chastitty / squeduled orgasms for you partner.
I am in trial period, but going great so far.
I feel constant impulse to give her as much orgasms as she wants.
Thanks for sharing!
Hi Emma,
I believe this could really help my relationship. How do I get my partner to embrace all this? It seems a long way from where we currently are.
So well written, it is wonderful to hear other women embracing how diverse and deep a relationship can be . when we simply change the construct of sex to embody an ongoing experience of both mind and body .
Thank you so mutch for this great article! Im a married Man who just short time ago became the submissive husband to my long time Wife.
It has been a eye opening mutal desistion and experience when she desided to take controll over her life and marrige. Before we often argueing but now we almost never arguing any more. I still say my opinion but we bouth know that she has the final saying.
It has been times I had som regrets and felt it humiliating. Because its not every day it feels nice to be put in my place by her firm hand and voice. Spesaly when friends and famely is among us.
But our marrige, sexlife and every day life has improved tremendessly! Even the times when I felt hurt and realy wanted somthing she put her fot down to I later slways get more arused and enda up on my knee on her lap thanking her for her great leadership and guidence.
I love to be a bether submissive husband to her and learn by reading on this site! So again thanx! 🙏❤