Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside and come together as one. I've written several other blogs about this wonderous time of the year and you are welcome to check those out. The goal of Locktober is to refrain from orgasm for the entire month of October. Remember that going even a week for some men may be absolutely ludicrous since he has conditioned himself to ride that orgasmic high on a daily basis from the time he was a teenager. This can be extremely difficult but in can be very impactful for the relationship and understanding the needs of each other.
As with most things, the hardest part is getting things underway. In this blog we will set out a cheat-sheet for your Locktober success. Reading this in March or June? No worries! You can do the challenge any month of the year. The first step is picking out a good cage. Unfortunately chastity devices are not always carried in your local sex shop so you will probably need to purchase them online. Go with a cheap one or two so you can figure out which style suits you best. Many couples go through two or three devices before they find the one that fits best. Alternatively there are companies that will custom fit devices however I'd still argue that you should experiment with a few cheap cages before spending a couple hundred dollars on a custom gold plated cage-o-magnifico.
Prior to starting Locktober, it is important that you try it on a few times beforehand. Wear it for an hour or two and always reward him after completing his hour or two. The cage should be a source of praise and joy together, it is not a punishment. Talk to him deeply before getting started. Some great conversation questions: Does Locktober make you scared or excited? Don't accept a one word answer, he will almost undoubtedly say both, ask him to elaborate on each.
Locking him up has some amazing benefits and I would go so far as calling it a relationship lifehack. Locking him up takes his male sexual energy and bottles it up, redirecting it toward you. After a few days, you will notice more physical touching and attention along with a more thoughtful and chivalrous guy. Do you remember how he acted when you were first dating? The guy you fell in love with? Introduce chastity into your relationship and you will be able to welcome that guy back into your life. If you are new to keeping your relationship under lock and key, here are a few blogs that you might find interesting.
