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Tantra – Touch and Sex
In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when...
Antisocial Distancing
Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the...
Our Boyfriend
My last couple blogs have turned into erotic novels and while that isn't the typical content of the site, I really enjoyed reminiscing about the experience and writing it....
Ping Pong 2
In my previous blog, I talked about meeting Andrew and the game of table tennis that led to an exciting friendship. If you haven't read that blog, I highly...
Ping Pong
I've hesitated to post this too quickly but knew I would post it sooner or later since typing my thoughts tends to give me a sort of mental clarity....
Male Chastity: Why Does it Seem Like He Wants To Be Locked?
He probably does want to be locked! Once he grows accustomed to the feel of the cage and managing his releases, many men grow to feel more comfortable when...
Relationships: What Motivates Him?
Let's talk about motivation. A typical man's sexual energy is very closely linked to his desire to please you. That may seem odd but men in fact are hard...
Penis Fascination
I admit it. Penises fascinate me. I wouldn't say that most penises are incredibly attractive (sorry guys) but they are shaped to be very practical. Their sizes and shapes...
Tantric Trolls
For those of you who have been around a while, you know that I'm never one to be afraid of feeding the trolls. Something about the the site or...
Male Chastity: Which is better, plastic or metal?
I'll go against everything that I have ever been told and begin with the conclusion. The plastic or resin cage is lighter weight and typically will not set off...
Cell Mate Bluetooth Chastity Cage
Update 10/8/2020 - The BBC and Tech Crunch have published some issues that indicate safety and security concerns with this device. Buyers beware.
Admittedly I am a huge nerd. Kevin...
Male Chastity: Spiky Objects
Wait. What? Spikes?
You read that correctly. This is a post about cages with pokey bits on the inside. Why on earth would you want to add uncomfortable sharpness?...
Did you miss me?
I am back!
To be honest I never really went anywhere. I've just had life creep up on me and my little hobby website was something that I needed to...
Relationships: A Dom Perspective
DominusServae contacted me and we've been corresponding about his thoughts on the blog with relation to his own experience as a dominant male. It seems that much of what...
In Appreciation of Men
Kevin is running some errands this morning and I am just sitting here drinking my coffee and thinking. I just wanted to take a moment to write a blog...
Male Chastity Day 2020
It is like a combination of Mother's Day, Valentine's Day and Christmas all in one. Don't miss out on this wonderful opportunity to try something new to rekindle things...
Relationships: Sexualizing Insecurities
I'm writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the...
Relationships: Talk to him about masturbation
Masturbation is a huge part of our sexuality. We all masturbate and taking matters into our own hands is nothing to be ashamed of. The problems come when masturbation...
Male Chastity Day 2020
I've been a bit silent over the last month as we've had family in and out of town and everything that comes with the holidays. What better way to...
Pegging: A Bit Rougher
Pegging is a gentle act of submission for us. I enjoy it that way, I want him to feel the sensual side of sex. I want him to feel...
A Chastity Husband Manifesto
The following is an insightful piece written by Tumbelina, a chastity advocate. I wanted to share it with you all since the article seemed to resonate with my feelings...
Prostate Orgasm
We've never experienced one of these but I can't wait until I am able to help Kevin experience one. Or two. Or three. In my quest to help guide...
A Deep Connection
Relationships are all about connection. Sometimes we have busy lives, mismatched libidos or even conflict that steps between us. Our emotions play an enormous part of our ability to...
National Pegging Day is October 13th!
Did you know that October 13th is National Pegging Day? Take this wonderful holiday to learn about pegging and everything that it can bring to your relationship. Here are...
Pegging Positions
If you've spent any time reading my blog, you've undoubtedly seen that Kevin and I truly enjoy pegging. If you haven't tried pegging, swing over to the pegging for...