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What is Compersion?
The dictionary defines compersion as:
The feeling of joy one has experiencing another's joy, such as in witnessing a toddler's joy and feeling joy in response.
You can think of compersion...
Sexual Awakening & Religion
I've been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn't going to be an...
The Training Wheels Are Off
We've been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. ?? What would you call it,...
Successful Relationships are 50/50
In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can...
The Life and Times of Vegas Ang – Part 2
This is part 2 of Vegas Ang’s Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...
Male Sex Hormones
Male Sex Hormones
Here are some details about the sex hormones that make all of this so exciting:
We hear a lot about testosterone, and it is a huge thing in...
The Life and Times of Vegas Ang
This is part 1 of Vegas Ang's Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...
Monogamy is Boring
Alright maybe men aren't boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big...
Male Chastity: When do the Training Wheels Come Off?
As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule...
Attraction & Courtship
Typically men find themselves most attracted to women their age or younger. Women, on the other hand usually find men older than them to be most attractive. The male...
The Dark Side of Male Chastity
This isn't going to be an article about the twisted underworld of chastity, this is about feelings. This is about ensuring that the feelings that you are hoping to...
The Sex Calendar
In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you...
In Defense of Submissive Men
So much of the material that you find on the internet about male submission and female dominance tends to minimize the value of the submissive man. If a man...
Punishment & Correction
2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent the relationship that we have...
Sweet Release
When you deem the timing appropriate, your man will need to be allowed a release. The timing of this is completely up to you but usually ranges between one...
Introduction – What is Chastity?
If you haven't read my article entitled taking the reigns and you are new to the concept of a female led relationship I would recommend that you start there.
Enforced...
The Sex Barter System
The concept of bartering involves one party giving something to another party in exchange for something of similar value. As one of the world's oldest professions, prostitution is the...
Lock Him Up For Date Night
I had a conversation with a friend of mine - she knows all about my love for keeping my fella under lock and key. So far she has shied...
The Sexually Frustrated Man
Aren't they all? Seriously though. This guy has an unrealistic expectation of sex in this relationship. He may have gotten into a relationship expecting that he would have daily...
Was it good for you?
We are obviously a sex-positive blog and I found this infographic to be very interesting. I haven't fact checked all of the points and it doesn't really have sources...
Male Chastity: Motivating his weight loss
Looking good for your partner is an important thing for every relationship. Sometimes you feel like your partner may need a bit of work to motivate him to get...
Pegging For Beginners
Pegging is new, pegging is exciting, pegging is scary. Read my previous blog about how pegging feels to a woman.
In his newly discovered and highly emotionally aware state, he...
Back In The Saddle
We tried the honor system. We tried it, didn't have any slip-ups and it worked but it wasn't as fun for either of us. Kevin got his weekly release...
Starting Out – Part 4
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it.
As we left...