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Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!

It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic...

What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?

In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our...

Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?

Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely....

Quit feeling guilty about sex!

For women it seems like sex and guilt go hand in hand. If we sleep with him too soon, we feel guilty. If we sleep with too many guys,...

How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what's the big deal? The...

Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

Paraphilia - The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals.Objectophilia - Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects.Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia - Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects.Agalmatophilia - Sexual...

Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

This isn't going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man's penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with...

A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I've written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog...

What the Heck are Reverse Pegging and Fauxing?

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on...

Ask Emma: Why would I lock his penis in a cage?

Emma, My husband of twelve years just told me that he wants me to lock his penis in a metal cage. I didn't even know what to say! I searched...

Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?

It is true that men report a greater desire or interest in sexual fetishes than women do. Men also report engaging in these types of behaviors more frequently as...

Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I've thought about the body shaming and negative body image...

What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?

I've been trying to become more active on my twitter and I've come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some...

Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

We all know that negative reinforcement doesn't work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can...

Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can...

Mother’s Day 2021: Your mom is awesome!

My mother was incredibly important to me, she formed who I am today and she helped shape a world view that not only told me that I am "enough"...

New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step...

Mare: Artist Profile

Mare or perhaps more accurately MᗩRƐ or MAR3 is an 23yr old male artist from Denmark that draws some incredibly sexy kink illustrations. From his patreon page, he says...

Pegging: Surrender Your Body to Her

I previously wrote about pegging positions and that continues to be one of the most popular blogs on the site. After writing that, I realized that positions actually very...

Pegging: It’s All In the Technique

Technique can be difficult for those of us without an appendage dangling between our legs. We weren't born with a penis so we have to learn technique as we...

Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

The ratio of men and women in the world is remarkably similar with males being only slightly more common than females. In some countries the ratio is slightly higher...

Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”

Male orgasm denial has many benefits that we've covered on this blog, the male and female orgasms are very different. The female orgasm is designed to promote closeness and...