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What Is Locktober?
Locktober is the challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an...
Tender Submission
Sometimes a woman just needs to descend to her primal instincts rather than traditionally/societal feminine roles. Sometimes she needs to feel what it is like to fully dominate her...
Push His Boundaries
Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we...
Sexuality: Can You Create a Fetish?
Can you create a fetish in your guy thorough the use of operant conditioning? Operant conditioning is a type of learning where behavior is controlled by consequences. You can...
How Long Should He Take?
Kevin and I love experimenting. Nothing new for us. We like to learn as much as we can about this whole sexuality level and then tweak it to our...
Chastity Statistics
In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were...
[Quiz] Is Chastity Right For You?
Orgasm control and enforced chastity is a huge benefit for many couples. Please take this quiz to see if it might be right for you and your relationship.
Take the...
Just How Popular Is Male Chastity & Orgasm Denial
While I don't have any way to disprove or authenticate the statistic in the header image for this blog which states "An estimated one in every 6 straight men...
Relationship At Play: Being best friends is the key to relationship happiness
Happy Father's Day to all you dads out there. Just a quick blog to remind us to be playful all throughout the year. The ability to joke and play...
Feeling Frisky
The honor system has been working well for us and I don't believe that Kevin has done anything behind my back but I miss the cage so it is...
Female Authority: How Can It Fit Into My Relationship?
As our society's definition of authority evolves, women are the new men.
As you take a moment to think about that, it might actually have some truth to it. I...
From His Perspective Part 2
Part two of some user-requested questions from our forum. For the previous blog, you can check out From His Perspective.
I didn't expect to be doing another Q&A session...
From His Perspective
Hi everyone. You've been hearing about my sex life from Em for some time. I have to admit that I am a bit insecure writing this blog since you...
An Introduction to Sexual Humiliation
Humiliation is a varied thing amongst men. Some guys really enjoy it. Some guys like it in small, teasing doses. Some guys crave it when locked up as an...
Relationships: Communication in a female led partnership
Communication about sex is essential but most couples simply don't talk about it. More evolved couples will come up with a game such as turning on a red light...
Female Led Partnership: Does it work?
We've been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I've been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven't...
What is Compersion?
The dictionary defines compersion as:
The feeling of joy one has experiencing another's joy, such as in witnessing a toddler's joy and feeling joy in response.
You can think of compersion...
Sexual Awakening & Religion
I've been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn't going to be an...
The Training Wheels Are Off
We've been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. ?? What would you call it,...
Successful Relationships are 50/50
In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can...
The Life and Times of Vegas Ang – Part 2
This is part 2 of Vegas Ang’s Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...
Male Sex Hormones
Male Sex Hormones
Here are some details about the sex hormones that make all of this so exciting:
We hear a lot about testosterone, and it is a huge thing in...
The Life and Times of Vegas Ang
This is part 1 of Vegas Ang's Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...
Monogamy is Boring
Alright maybe men aren't boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big...
Male Chastity: When do the Training Wheels Come Off?
As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule...