If you've been around this site more than a few minutes, you know that my fiance and I are huge pegging fans. Huge fans. I mean we peg more...

Images of black men as a much larger and more menacing cuckold threat to the poor innocent white women are pervasive in porn and imagery around the cuckold fetish....

As NO-vember comes to a close, so does our 1st annual Male Chastity Beauty Contest and a winner has been selected. This was my first time doing a photo...

I received an email earlier this week with a husband who wants her to make fun of his penis size. She is understandably confused and not comfortable with making...

For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude. Arguably the most famous blog...

In this sixteen part series over the next five weeks, we will explore how we can use our bodies and our sexuality with a partner with whom we've completely...

Sex is an incredible way to enhance the connection between two people but what happens when sex becomes boring or even mundane? Sex turns up the magic between two...

We've all heard of blue balls. You know, that medical condition men complain about when they get aroused but don't ejaculate. I was accused of being a tease back...

In a monogamous relationship, society expects our needs to be completely met by our partner without exception. Stress, age and health concerns can throw our sexual desire from one...

I'd like to introduce everyone to Miss Fit, who has a virtual fitness program that uses chastity to help achieve fitness results. As you may recall, Kev and I...

It is no secret that about 80% of male chastity is initiated by the male and in this blog I provide context and encourage men to communicate about the...

If you are like me, you love the look of a neatly caged specimen and adore the lines of a nicely fitted cage. The confidence that it inspires for...

When men think about sex a lot, we assume it has something to do with testosterone. But men’s urgency about sex is not always about physical desire only. Sex can...

Your fella confessed that he has a fantasy of watching you with another man. That is a pretty big leap for even the most secure relationship. While many of...

In our culture, the female form embodies sexy and men are not permitted the luxury of feeling sexy. Did you know that only 12.1 percent of men between the...

Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober...

You knew what he was going to ask before he asked it. His body language said it all. He says something awkward like "hey baby, want to get jiggy...

I am just taking a moment to brag here so forgive me for diving into the spotlight for a moment. I rushed home from a job interview to write...

It is insane to think that this site has been around for nearly three years in one form or another. I started reading the now defunct FLR 101 blog...

I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other's eyes. As I sat with my coffee...

The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to...

We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober 2021 festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month...

This won't be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and...

The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think...

There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men...