When it comes to relationships and intimacy, many of us carry unexamined beliefs that shape how we view sex, love, and connection. The concept of the scarcity vs abundance mindset in polyamory is one of the most powerful frameworks for understanding these beliefs...
Hi Emma, I hope you’re doing well today. I’m reaching out because I’m in a tough spot. My wife and I have been married for years, and we’ve hit a place where we just don’t see eye to eye anymore. Our relationship has become strained, and we’re currently in a sexless...
When we think of marriage, we often picture it as an emotional and spiritual bond. But beneath the surface lies a biological foundation that holds relationships together: the sexual system. Rooted in our evolutionary history, this system is responsible for not only...
When it comes to bringing fun and playful exploration into the bedroom, sometimes it’s about more than just the physical connection—it’s about the mental stimulation, a verbal penis comparison, and embracing a little taboo. One of my favorite scenarios to explore...
Hi Emma, I have a question for you. I can't cum with my husband. When I first married him he had no trouble getting me off but we have been married ten years now and I don't really even want to have sex with him because I know I can't have an orgasm with him. He is a...
In many relationships, there's an unspoken agreement that feels a little like a bad business deal—men commit to secure a steady supply of sex, and women get cast in the role of sexual gatekeepers. In this role, women ration sex to the man in a stale and dysfunctional...
When it comes to relationships, energy fuels everything. From emotional connection to intellectual stimulation, every interaction either adds or subtracts from the dynamic that keeps a couple thriving. Among all the different types of energy in a relationship, one...
When it comes to kink and BDSM, many people enjoy the physical aspects—hands-on dominance and submission, sensory play, or even bondage. But there’s something especially electrifying about a psychological experience, and nothing captures the essence of that quite like...
A reader recently mentioned Peyronie's disease to me, and I had never come across it before. Whenever I encounter something new, I love diving in to learn all about it. So, here's my deep dive into the unwelcome curve of Peyronie's disease. A disease named after...
Let’s talk about penis sensitivity. Some men wish they could feel more—like every little touch, lick, or tease is an electric jolt of pleasure. Others? They wish they could feel less, because finishing too soon can be frustrating (for both of you). And then, of...
The question of whether men should be inherently dominant and women inherently submissive is as old as human civilization itself. Gender, submission, power, cultural norms, religious doctrines, and traditional family structures have historically reinforced a very...
The modern marriage dynamic is vastly different within each partnership, uniquely shaped by the values, beliefs, and desires of those involved. Domestic discipline offers an alternative relationship dynamic where correction, including spanking, is consensually...
In a female-led relationship (FLR) intimacy is about more than just physical pleasure. It’s about reinforcing power, devotion, and acceptance in the most intimate way possible. And what better way to do that than through the art of one-way oral service? For many...
The exploration of gender roles and dynamics in today's society has become more fluid and so has the definition of roles in the modern marriage. One area this exploration can thrive through curiosity is through role play, a tool that can add excitement, novelty, and...
Introducing new kinks or fantasies into a relationship can be a daunting task. Whether you're diving into the world of cuckold play or small penis humiliation (SPH), finding a comfortable way to broach these topics is key to keeping the spark alive while respecting...
Cuckolding can be an intense, thrilling, and deeply bonding experience for couples who embrace it. However, like any emotionally and sexually charged activity, it carries the potential for an emotional rollercoaster. As women, we often experience a mix of pleasure,...
For many women, the idea of embracing female dominance in marriage can seem like a foreign concept. The societal expectation that men should lead and women should follow has been so deeply ingrained in us that even the thought of stepping into a more assertive,...
Today's topic is pegging, role reversal, and the way we perceive dominance, submission, and gender roles in the bedroom. Too often, we confine these topics to narrow boxes, linking who penetrates or receives to a fixed sexual identity. But reality? It’s all much more...