Locktober is the challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an enormous advocate. Sex shouldn't be the basis of interactions with your significant other. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside come together as one. During locktober, he will abstain from both sex and masturbation for the entire month of October. Typically this is extremely difficult so most couples decide to use a device to help.
If you are participating in Locktober, just leave a comment below and let us know. Follow up with how many days you were able to make it. Hopefully everyone is shooting for thirty one days!
Sex is great! Most of us absolutely love sex but it isn't we are about. As couples we connect on a deep level and we aren't always trying to convince our partner to hop into bed. Do you remember how things used to be? Back at the beginning of your relationship, he was courting you. He treated you differently and as time went on, he started treating you like one of the guys. You aren't one of the guys (even if you are a gay couple), you are his partner. After he accepts the changes and stops fighting it, you will see courtship make an appearance back in your relationship.
That's where male chastity comes in the the equation. Male chastity is the control of his orgasms for the benefit of your relationship.
As you make your way through the month together, you will find that his hormonal balance changes significantly. How significantly? He will quite literally become a different guy as his body accepts his hormonal changes. As the month progresses, his male machismo will lessen and he will become a bit more submissive. Being submissive isn't a bad thing and most guys would be well served to explore their submissive side a bit more.
Teasing is important, this isn't about ignoring his penis and his needs for a month! This is about embracing physical needs but limiting the sexual release that he is accustomed to receiving at the end of each interaction.…
