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Inferiority Fetish: Getting off on feeling not good enough
I was thinking in the shower as I often do and I thought to myself; self, many of these fetishes that Kev and I enjoy dance around the bigger...
FLR101: A New Plateau
We've started his new 6 week schedule, and he's past the two week mark. I wasn't really expecting much at this stage. Maybe it's the fact that his E-day...
FLR101: Sarah’s Experience – Chapter 4 “Success!!!”
Sorry for delay in my posting but some things came up in the family which distracted me (nothing too serious fortunately).
Well I guess everyones big question is – did...
Love vs Lust: We’ve evolved to be horrible with long term relationships
Why are sexual needs so difficult for us to talk about? If you are hungry, you talk about how to satiate your hunger. If you are bored, you talk...
FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 3 “Four Days In”
We are having fun with this so far, as it has greatly enhanced our sex life even with just this short run so far. The desired goal is to...
FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 2 “A Nervous Night”
Hi, Its just me Sarah with an update – sorry this will be a bit long but I think I need to get this all out …
I rolled...
Is penis size inversely linked to intelligence?
No. I looked through numerous studies and I could not find a single one that linked penis size to IQ with anything statistically meaningful. There was lots of racist...
FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 1 “Feeling the relationship could be more”
Sarah is a reader that responded in the comments section of my blog. I didn't want her story to get buried in the comments section so I'm breaking her...
Why do some men find humiliation and female dominance irresistible?
All men are not alike just as all women are not alike. Many women find a dominant male attractive, let's unpack the reasons. We are all wired to appreciate...
FLR101 – Reader Letter: Wife is very pleased
"Writing at my wife's request who recently found your blog. She's so pleased by the benefits of this that she wonders why allow any ejaculation, ever? Two weeks in...
FLR101 – Concerns about the safety of Jade Eggs
It's come to my attention that it may not be advisable to insert Jade Eggs inside the vagina. It's been my understanding that these eggs have been used by...
Unpopular Opinion: You shouldn’t have to say size doesn’t matter to spare his feelings
Does size matter to some? Absolutely! As I've explored on my blog, a small penis is wonderful for emotional lovemaking but a larger penis is just what the doctor...
FLR101 – Preparing your yoni to receive the retaining male’s lingam
It's important in my opinion that when you have your man retaining and he is preserving his Jing and building Chi that I prepare myself to receive that special...
FLR101 – How do I introduce this to my partner?
I've received a few questions from men that are really intrigued by this system, but are hesitant or afraid of what their wife might think or how they might...
FLR101 – Terms of entry
Our intercourse sessions are very passionate. I think if most women could witness them, they might find it unbelievable. But this is the way a man responds to a...
FLR101 – Chapter 3-1: Examples of aversive stimuli
More than a few times people have asked me for suggestions in my comment sections on aversive stimuli that could be used for unauthorized ejaculation. I decided to put...
FLR101 Chapter 1-1: Health concerns about semen retention
I received this question from a reader recently:
Great blog full of practical information, thank you!Given your medical/science background, do you have any health concerns regarding long-term retention? My wife's...
FLR101 – Chapter 11: A woman should know her place
I've been thinking of my evolution as a woman, and I kept coming back to the two female archetypes of Lilith and Eve. I've come to the conclusion that...
FLR101: The importance of daily stimulation …and an awakening
We had a week recently where we were very much involved in other things other than our sex life. My husband was preoccupied with things of a technical nature. ...
FLR101: His week off, an important decision
We recently finished a period where I extended his ejaculation schedule to 14 days. During that time I applied intense pre-climax stimulation to him during those 14 days. There...
FLR101 – Chapter 10: Awakening your yoni
In his 1948 studies, Alfred Kinsey found that 75 percent of American men achieved orgasm within two minutes of commencing intercourse. The female body takes much more time to...
FLR101 – Chapter 9: Strengthening pair bonding with pre-climax stimulation
All good science attempts to explain what is observed, and I observe that when my male subject ejaculates frequently, he is assertive, dominant, and aggressive. When he retains semen...
FLR101 – Chapter 8: Extending the courtship phase into marriage
One of the cardinal rules in operant conditioning is that a continuous stimulus ceases to be a stimulus. After being married for over 10 years, it's safe to say...
FLR101 – Chapter 7: Post ejaculation things a woman should know
Once in awhile on rare occasions your husband will ejaculate. When this happens, he will tend to go through a process of reevaluation of himself and this new dynamic...
FLR101 – Chapter 6: Abolishing your husband’s masturbation habit
If there is one behavior that drains a marriage of passion, it's a husband's masturbation habit. He should be retaining semen for the benefit of the relationship and recognize...