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Identify The Motivations behind your Non-Monogamy
Non-monogamy, also known as consensual non-monogamy or ethical non-monogamy, refers to the practice of having multiple simultaneous sexual or romantic relationships with the knowledge and consent of all involved...
SDH: The Joys of Sex Doll & Fleshlight Humiliation
Using a sex doll in the bedroom is typically considered a thing to do in the absence of a partner but what about including a sex doll with your...
Humiliation: SPH as a Relationship Dynamic
Humiliation is deeply arousing for men. I'll be honest, I don't really get it. If he told me that his ex had bigger tits than me (she did), I'd...
Ask Emma: Can Cuckolding Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
Hi Emma,
My husband and I are new to cuckolding and we truly find enjoyment in the fantasy but I think it may cause some anxiety in his mind...
QIUI Key Pod Giveaway – Win a Key Pod!
A few years ago I gave away a Cell Mate remote chastity device and the amazing folks at lockthecock.com have graciously offered to sponsor another giveaway for not just...
My Wife Dates: The Case for the Halfway Open Marriage
Interpersonal relationships are complex and many of us will agree that marriage is an outdated construct. That doesn't have to mean that partnering with another individual with the intention...
Male Chastity Day 2023
Male chastity. A topic I absolutely adore. Why do I love male chastity so much? Let me count the ways!
The male orgasm is wonderful and I love experiencing this...
Ask Emma – Should I let a man other than my husband get me pregnant?
Emma,
Thank you so much for running this website. It gives us some great information on this lifestyle. Learning about this lifestyle is not always easy since there is...
What is a cuck good for anyway?
Your dick is not big enough to fully satisfy me sexually. I attract younger and more fit men, why would I settle for one man? How do those words...
Ask Emma: Reclaiming after my boyfriend visits.
I (F38) am married to my husband (M40) and have a boyfriend (M33) who comes over and visits a few times a month. He (boyfriend) is in an open...
The Sex & Psychology Podcast: Dr. Justin Lehmiller
I've got a few blogs that I am in the middle of writing but I've been meaning to post about the Sex and Psychology Podcast for some time. This...
Only Emotional Safety Allows True Sexual Freedom
My wheels are turning, three blogs in three consecutive days? Who am I? I think my mind is just incredibly fueled by the wonderful comments and dialog that my...
Romantic Loyalty & Cuckolding: Can They Coexist?
Yesterday I posted a blog entitled Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective and shortly after, I received some private messages from readers. Some were supportive while others were...
Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective
This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just fine as a standalone blog,...
Ask Emma: How can I stop feeling guilty about taking control?
Emma, First off, thank you for maintaining such a great website. Your articles have been pivotal in feeling more comfortable about my wife and I's desires. I'm reaching out...
Male Chastity: The lock and key are important symbols of our relationship. ?
Some couples have a song, perhaps the song that they danced to at their wedding. Some couples have a place such as their honeymoon location or another place that...
Male Chastity: Want me to unlock you? Convince me!
This is one that works especially well for the husbands that aren't great about opening up about their fantasies and their feelings. It works by getting them out of...
Orgasm Denial: A step by step guide to add structure to his ejaculations.
In my previous blog, we discussed orgasms and how controlling male orgasms can be integral to the satisfaction potential of your relationship. I'll do my best to make this...
Orgasm Denial: Controlling access to what he believes he is entitled to.
Let's first outline what denial is and why men find it exciting. Denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences or excitement. Pretty simple right? Denial is not...
Ask Emma: Vacation Cuckold Experience That I Don’t Know How To Feel About
Hi Emma, Thank you so much for your articles, I can relate to so much of what you write. My name is Tanya (not my real name) I am...
Mistress Emma: No ball gags, whips or patent leather costumes in my closet.
I am not a dominatrix. I am not a mistress. I don't believe in female supremacy. I don't think women should rule the world. I don't even think that...
What Evolving Your Man is and what it isn’t.
This site has been around in one form or another for five years. Five years. That is an eternity in internet years but not really that long in terms...
It is almost time for SPH September! #sphseptember
It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it...
What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship for women?
Recent convert here so I feel like I am uniquely positioned to talk about this topic. If you read my previous blogs, you will know that I've been mostly...
Sex with my husband is not sex at all
Kev and I are newlyweds, we got hitched just two short months ago. While he and I are in our honeymoon period on paper, we've been together for years....