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The Female Led Marriage: Make the sexual dynamic about his needs
If you believe everything you read on the internet, the female led or cuckold marriage is about a woman who ignores her pathetic husband at home and simply does...
Cuckolding From a Woman’s Perspective
I wrote about the appeal of a cuckold and hotwife relationship for women and it continues to be one of my most popular blogs. I've wanted to revisit it...
Sexuality Explained: The Seven Year Itch
We've all heard of the dreaded Seven Year Itch, a phrase commonly used to describe a point in a marriage or long-term relationship when a couple may experience a...
Every man’s love language is physical touch! What gives?
Are you familiar with the five love languages? In Gary Chapman's 1992 book, he described five languages that men and women express and receive love. Those languages are words...
The Dark Side of Female Led Relationships
On twitter, I will tweet about femdom related things, and female led relationship (FLR) things, and often conflate the two; because its fun. Kev and I enjoy a wonderful...
Ask Emma: How can we close the door on our open marriage?
Hi Emma! My husband and I have been in the LS for about four years and it is becoming too much for me. I am tired of the parties...
Male Chastity: Barbie Movie Inspired Locktober 2023!
The Barbie movie made me think about the world and what it would look like if it was built by women, for women. We all know it isn't and...
Prostate Milking: Poking around for fun and profit!
Prostate milking is also known as prostate massage or prostate stimulation and involves stimulation of the prostate gland. Prostate milking is often done for sexual pleasure and can be...
Warming Things Up: Sensation play with Icy Hot™
Ice cubes, tickling, pointy things, spiky things, the list goes on and on but what about some hurty stuff? Do you ever want to tie him up and watch...
Femdom Ideas: The Thrift Store Date Night
Thrifting is fun, we love going to thrift stores. The list of options is long; Salvation Army, Goodwill, Deseret, Savers and local thrift stores too. Pick your favorite and...
Sex Hack: The Relationship Sexual Cycle Rewired
This is part two of a series about the relationship sexual cycle. If you haven't already read my explanation of the relationship sexual cycle in part one, please take...
Forced Feminization: Sometimes it is About a Power Dynamic
Kev and I have been playing with cross dressing and feminization and it is mostly at my behest. I enjoy seeing him in panties and I enjoy seeing him...
The Fox & The Stag
A fox hotwife is any woman that has occasional sex with other men with the encouragement and full consent of her straight heterosexual husband or boyfriend. Her husband or...
Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity
Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer.
Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis, you need to ask yourself...
The Femdom Handjob: Pleasure and punishment
First off what is a femdom handjob? The definition is incredibly broad, a femdom handjob is any type of handjob where the female is dominant. That is an incredibly...
Quit busting my balls; Everything you ever wanted to know about CBT
This site typically doesn't dive into extreme bdsm by any means but today I will. Why? Because I am fascinated by it. It all started one day when I...
Erotic Fiction: The Cuck’s Blow-Up Doll, Annabelle
I'd like to thank Emily Strauss for contributing this work of erotic fiction. Emily is a friend of Evolving Your Man and was inspired to write this by the...
My Cuckold Relationship: Why I choose him over you
As I lay with my husband like I have so many times before, he pushed himself into me but this time was different. This time I didn't want that...
Sex Hack: The Relationship Sexual Cycle Explained
After my previous blog entitled "My Husband is in the Friendzone" I received an outpouring of responses via Twitter and email - both negative and positive. A quick reminder...
Ask Emma: My husband is in the friendzone. Is it possible that our marriage has just run its course?
Hi Emma.
Can you please use a fake name for this? I'll go by Jessica if that is just the same to you. I've been married for 9 years...
LoopLok: What Does a Lock on a Beltloop Mean?
Have you see people walking around town with locks on their beltloop? Have you wondered just what in tarnation those are about? Look no further, we will unfold the...
Why Would I Want to Feminize My Husband?
I've always been opposed to feminization. I am female; a strong and empowered female who knows what she wants. My husband is male; a strong and subservient male that...
Audio Porn: Delight Yourself With Sounds and Words
A hot delivery boy shows up with a pizza, but the poor woman doesn’t have enough cash to pay for it. The pizza is cast aside, and the terms...
Post-Nut Humiliation: The Perfect Time to Play with Emotions
Post nut clarity is time when sexual arousal decreases after an orgasm. That clear feeling after he lets loose of his juice and he is in a temporary psychological...
Ten Ways to Practice Female Led Relationships Outside of the Bedroom
On this glorious site we go over female led relationships (FLR) and the focus is in the bedroom but what about the other 95% of the time when we...